Dating anthlatic professional,did I ruin some potential already? tips?

I am seeing a guy who is a professional rugby player for NRL. Beside having a body of perfection, he is a very very nice person. We hooked up the first night we met, but actually feeling like each other. the feelings are mutual. Since then, we have been in touch on the almost daily basis. He has training everyday, so is my work. We finally caught up after the long 10 days waiting and wanting. He picked me up after my work, and I made him a lovely dinner. then some conversation. Then there's hot S* following that. then he had to leave for QLD as playing a game vs Cowboy on Sunday.





From the conversation, I knew that he has been single for a long time. longest relationship is 6 months. that was long time ago too. But he said he is only seeing me at the moment, and he is hard to get. And I am his ';Thursday girl'; (he laughed when said that). I knew it was a joke, as we have been msn each other almost every night since. i really like him, but want him to get serious before i do.. i think I might have done two things bad:





1) talked about my ex relationship with him





2) treated him too nice! home cooked dinner (better than his dad's cook as he said), and nice not hard to get at all!





i think he likes me, but not sure how should the things real (i mean he said see you then said see you SOON (with soon added) before he left..





I would like to get to know him more, but since we have done the deed too soon...could this ruin the change of heart?? he seems have me in his heart as we seem enjoy very very good spontaniousity at the moment.





Need advice....as I think i like him and its quite hard for me to see the things now...Dating anthlatic professional,did I ruin some potential already? tips?
Get to know them better. This is not a task only to be accomplished through dating. The more you get to know him or her, the more you can tell if you like them as a friend or something else. Just talk and do fun activities with the person.





Stop and consider why you like the person. There are many physically attractive and smart people out there. But if you see something beyond that really catches your attention, you've marked this person as unique and probably like them. Why else would they stand out from so many?





Consider how many times you think about the person. If you find yourself thinking about this person several times a day, and they are happy thoughts that possibly make your heart beat faster, then you probably like them.








Think how often you laugh at their jokes etc. When you like someone, you will find yourself laughing at things even if they aren't that funny. This is a natural attempt to make them feel appreciated.


If the one conversation between you and the person is stuck in you head and you cant stop telling people about it. this means it was important to you, and you probably like the person.








Consider how much you try to be near them. If you've planned your walking speed to catch a glimpse of them as many times of the day as possible, there is a good reason for that.








Think about how you feel if you touch him or her, by accident or on purpose. If you're still thinking about brushing shoulders several hours ago in school, then that is a special thought and you probably like them.








If you feel you're ready for a relationship, and are confident enough for a positive response, then just go ahead and ask them out. If you're unsure of their feelings for you, there are several wikihows on how to tell if someone likes you.