Saturday, January 23, 2010

Okay, so the first date... any tips?

So I have a date lined up for next week. Obviously we don't know that much about each other but we're interested enough to go out for the evening. I've only known her for 3 days and its going to be my first proper date and I'm quite nervous. I know shes gone out with guys before and she says they have had no interests or personality - although we share similar music and movie tastes which I have taken as a good start. It's just when we meet up next week those first few minutes are going to be quite important and I will obviously be myself but I don't want to screw it up. Any hints or tips from any other guys, or girls for that matter from pervious dates?Okay, so the first date... any tips?
God I wish it were me instead of you. That first date, Butterflies in the belly, Scared that your going to look stupid, Worried about your breath and how you look, Wondering if your going to get a grope, Getting there to early and waiting around the corner so that you don't look to kean. Of course it's going to work out just don't rush it. Listen when she talks and laugh at the daft things that she says. Don't go overboard with the flattery but tell her that she smells nice. Yup my old mate I wish it were me.Okay, so the first date... any tips?
You have to accept that the first few minutes are probably going to feel a bit awkward. They will be awkward for her too and you mustn't panic or assume things are going badly if you do feel a bit like you've had a few uncomfortable silences. Just don't intellectualise things, be happy, enjoy it and above all DON'T PANIC!!
Just talk to her like you normally do. :)





And ask her questions about herself. ;) People love to talk about themseleves.





The only way you could screw things up is if you go too fast. ;) Don't expect sex or even a decent kiss for the first date. If you want this to be serious,t ake things slow.





~Evie

Tips for a date with a guyfriend you know just to chill nothing else ^^ full non-stop fun ^^?

I just wanna surprise him ^^Tips for a date with a guyfriend you know just to chill nothing else ^^ full non-stop fun ^^?
try to go to a casino. there is a lot of tension there :DTips for a date with a guyfriend you know just to chill nothing else ^^ full non-stop fun ^^?
LOL, I was going to say Schlitterbahn, then I remembered not everyone lives in Texas, haha!! Um..what city/state do you live in? Without more info I'd probably go with Amusement Park, sky diving, road trip to a beach, ect...
nonstop fun?? well i live near a six flags.... thats non stop fun to me... and who doesnt like amusement parks? or waterparks??

Dinner date tonight, any tips?

So I have a dinner date tonight, I just wanted some general tips to keep it smooth. It is at a italian restaurant (we're both 16 so not to formal). One thing I really need to know is if I should be pushing her chair in behind her when she sits down, kinda like I see on TV and such.Dinner date tonight, any tips?
It is always nice when a man treats his date like a lady. Most girls LOVE that. Make it a point to open her car door and close it behind her. Open the door at the restaurant and do make sure that she is in her chair safely before you sit down. It is very nice when a guy helps you into your chair. Don't be stupid over aggressive with the manners. Just act like a gentleman. If she has a jacket, be sure to help her on with it when you are ready to leave. I really like it when a guy holds my coat for me to slip it on.


Good luck with your date.....don't be nervous......just remember, she is most likely nervous, too. Have fun and be yourself with manners. Hopefully, it will go well and you will get a good night kiss.Dinner date tonight, any tips?
you dont have to be liike that unless shes one of those high class rich gilrs but if not you dont have to but it would be a nice gesture


but reamember u want to be ur self dont try to be smooth or impress her just be ur self and if she doesnt like you for who u r then u shoulnd be goin out
Yes, it always pays to be a gentleman.





Push her chair when she is being seated. When she gets up for whatever reason, make sure you stand. When she comes back to the table, do the chair thing again.





Just use common sense and all will be well. And, remember to have a good time!
No you don't have to push her chair in but do open all doors for her, thats the best. I can't stand it when guys push my chair in because its akward. And silent moments are the worst too so keep asking her questions. Don't talk too much about yourself.
Yes by all means be a true gentleman and help her with her chair and hold the door for her and all that
Yes you should push her chair in and the whole 9 yards!!! If I was her, I would love it if you did that!





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be yourself don't be a dirt bag no burping.. and be polite

Tips for a date with a guyfriend you know just to chill nothing else ^^ full non-stop fun ^^?

I just wanna surprise him ^^Tips for a date with a guyfriend you know just to chill nothing else ^^ full non-stop fun ^^?
try to go to a casino. there is a lot of tension there :DTips for a date with a guyfriend you know just to chill nothing else ^^ full non-stop fun ^^?
LOL, I was going to say Schlitterbahn, then I remembered not everyone lives in Texas, haha!! Um..what city/state do you live in? Without more info I'd probably go with Amusement Park, sky diving, road trip to a beach, ect...
nonstop fun?? well i live near a six flags.... thats non stop fun to me... and who doesnt like amusement parks? or waterparks??

Dinner date tonight, any tips?

So I have a dinner date tonight, I just wanted some general tips to keep it smooth. It is at a italian restaurant (we're both 16 so not to formal). One thing I really need to know is if I should be pushing her chair in behind her when she sits down, kinda like I see on TV and such.Dinner date tonight, any tips?
The only thing you MUST do is just be a friend and have a good conversation and talk with her.





Think about some things that you can talk about. While you should say what comes naturally, the emotions and feelings can make it harder to think of everything on the spot.





So you should say what you would naturally say. But you can go over in your own mind ahead of time some of things that you think would be interesting to talk about or ask her about.





If you know she has some interests, maybe look on the net for latest news or information about her interests.





So be ready to have a good, friendly conversation.





As far as pulling out her chair, nothing like that is required or even expected.





It would be a good thing to do, if you naturally feel like doing it. She will probably be very charmed and pleased.





But if you are akward and uncomfortable, because it is not really ';you,'; then it might be better not to. You should be as genuine as possible.





Women love to be treated as special and valued. Any gesture you give her that tells her you are watching out for her, caring for her, or simply just noticing that she is feminine, something that just brings to life the difference between men and women and values her as a female, will charm her and help win her heart.





Along those lines, do not be shy as long as it feels genuine and real, as something natural for you. If you feel like putting her hand on her back to gently, tenderly point her toward the table or hold out your hand, or gently put the back of your hand tenderly on her cheek or holding her hand, go ahead and do it. But pay attention to what really feels genuine from your heart, NOT according to any rules or expectations that you think you HAVE to follow.





If you do something out of a sense of obligation, it won't feel genuine to her. If it really feels right to you, she will feel your genuineness.





Remember that a woman wants to feel your PERSONALITY.... who you are as a person, as a man.





You can talk about almost anything (socially acceptable) if you let your personality and feelings show through. If you are excited about something, she will enjoy hearing you talk about it.





But if you talk about the most interesting thing in the world, without your personality in it, it will be dull. She is NOT looking to learn information from you. She wants to feel YOU as a person, not receive data.





Understand that she may be shy at first. DO NOT worry about how she is acting early in the date. She may need to warm up. She may feel shy or not know what to say. Don't worry. ASSUME that you are doing well. Just keep talking about something fun, asking her about herself, etc. EXPECT that she needs time to warm up and relax.





Understand that (a) there is a time delay between the time you say or do something good and how she warms up. It takes time





(b) Little things are cumulative. If you tell 10 jokes that are just okay, they add up. She will feel happy. So don't stop. Just keep making her feel happy and positive.





Compliment her. Find something specific that you REALLY believe, sincerely, and mention it. It is always good to follow up a compliment with a question: ';I love your hair that way. Does it take a long time to do that?'; ';That's a nice dress. I'll bet you had to look a long time for it, right?'





As long as your compliments do not come across as groveling, you should use lots of them. There is no maximum, really. The problem comes when guys use compliments a form of begging. But she really wants to feel your approval as a guy. She will love being complimented. Just do it as if you are a strong, confident guy showing her approval. Never think that she is better than you. You are saying ';You're great, and so am I.'; Never let it come across as ';You're so fabulous, I don't deseve to be here.';





Also notice thatDinner date tonight, any tips?
Be positive!


Take time to think and do then the thing that you feel good with, lets wish for the best!
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  • Second meeting - cinema date - any tips?

    I'm about to have a date with this girl I like very much, and I'm almost sure she likes me too. We both are serious and a bit shy types, with very similar interests. We're about to see a long, romantic fantasy film, called Stardust. I've never had a 'cinema-date' before, so I'd like to ask for some tips from the experienced people here.





    By the way, some info: I'm 19, she's 18. She is an old childhood friend of mine, but like five years ago we lost connection with each by an accident (long story...). Luckily I found her on the net recently, and asked her out to the first meet. There we didn't do anything 'direct', just talked, joked, smiled a lot in a caf茅, what seemed perfect for us then. I plan to advance in small steps in this relationship, because ever since we separated that long time ago, I dreamed about what is these days' reality; and I don't want to mess it up after all this. She can very easily be 'the One' I've been looking for.


    So give me tips for the date please.Second meeting - cinema date - any tips?
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    good luck dear :)

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    Thank ye, it ended up preety well, not a kiss, but a long huggin' (means really much between shy persons) :)

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    Make up tips for date outside @night. CUTE GUY INVOLVED.i have the clothes and hair..all i need is the make up

    i have fairly tan skin.Make up tips for date outside @night. CUTE GUY INVOLVED.i have the clothes and hair..all i need is the make up
    green clothes are best for tan skin!


    jade colored makeup and pink shiny lip gloss will do perfectly! no blush AT ALL. eyshadow only!and go lightly on that too..Make up tips for date outside @night. CUTE GUY INVOLVED.i have the clothes and hair..all i need is the make up
    i have tan skin 2 and use a black eyeliner and maskara white eyeshadow and you dont whant to much gloss so i would use a lot of chapstick (lil tip dont put lip gloss on or chapstick on in front of him it looks like u r tryin to hard!!!)
    wear mascara,and a interesting lipstick color like coral glow or cotton candy pink for the ending kiss.NO BLUSH OR EYELINER!!You'll look like you have a fever or a black eye! (trust me!) :^/
    waterproof metallic eyeliner, sealed with a shimmer eye-shadow. example....for tan skin, stay away from BLACK liner, go towards....COPPER/Turquoise/Aqua...also, think in terms of cheek-stain....just in case you get thrown in a fountain. Lips: a translucent pink. MASCARA: waterproof, with primer. Ask any beauty consultant, for primer.





    When you come out of the fountain, all wet....your eyes and your cheeks will not have moved, and you're ready for the photo.





    Good luck.
    natural colors that accent your skin tones. DO NOT WEAR MAKE-UP TO MATCH THE COLOR OF YOU CLOTHES!!!
    I may be gay but I still know a lot of guys don't like to much make up so go easy if you are dark aka tan then i would not do to much make up, heres a great tip, go to one of the high end stores where they have make up girls that will set you down and see what looks good on you then you can ask them this same question free advise from a pro cant get any better.


    I dont know how old you are but remember you don't want someone that is shallow be your self hun, don't be something you will always have to try and live up to.. Now go get him girl friend ...


    Good luck , your new gay friend lol
    go with smoky eyes. it gives a dramatic/sexy effect without being too skanky or trying too hard.


    here is any easy way to do it-





    first, put on some sort of base. this will make sure it doesn't crease, or wipe off. you can use a couple things to do this- concealer, a light shade of liquid eyeshadow, or lipstick (yes. lipstick)





    second, apply eyeliner on the top eyelid. since you have fairly tan skin, you should go with black. smudge the liner evenly.





    third, apply the same eyeliner to your bottom eyelid, touching your lashes. dont make this too thick. its just an accent.





    fourth, take a shimmery white shadow and lightly brush it onto your top eyelid and all the way up to your brow.





    fifth, take a charcoal shadow, sparkly or not doesnt matter, and brush it onto your top eye lid.





    sixth, take a black eyeshadow, sparkly or otherwise, and line the top eyelash with it using an eyeliner brush, make this line wider as you get to the outside of your eye, then line the bottom as well. this achieves the smokey effect.





    seventh, black mascara. you can use more than usual to contrast the dramatic eyeshadow if you want.
    I'd say, it's quite tough here but i'll try.


    Look at yourself first, don't see what's you think best for you but see if it's suitable for you. Some over-make up will make you look ugly, but when you know how, you will look like a princess. Another option, seek personal consultant. he may know how to deal with you or buy a book that shows proper way to put up make up.
    Revlon cream makup. Shade according to your skin tone.
    I'd have to see a picture to say 100%, but fair-skinned girls can be quite hot---assuming they don't have bad skin (ie, acne). Some tan girls I actually find....eww...
    Go for a healthy sun kissed glow and natural makeup. It's the first date, don't go crazy. For tan skin I'd go without foundation (unless you have any problem areas then in that case just make sure to blend well). Since you already have tan skin, for the sun kissed glow instead of bronzer you should use some silvery powder and brush it lightly on the apples of your cheeks, bridge of your nose, and hair line, this will really make you glow. For the eyes I'd try a cream or brown eyes shadow. Curl your eyelashes and a FEW swipes of mascara. Avoid chunky-ness it looks very un-natural. Then for lips i'd reccomend a light pink or clear closs and lightly spread it on your lips, you don't want this to look like they're packaged in saran wrap.





    Good luck with the date tonight!

    First date at the movies tips?

    I'm going on a first date with a guy I really like, and I'm really nervous. Does anyone have tips for what to do? [kissing, holding hands, what to do when he puts his arm around me?]


    [[im a teen]]First date at the movies tips?
    when he puts his arm around you hold his hand, maybe a goodnight kiss but nothing further on the first dateFirst date at the movies tips?
    It's at a movie, you're not even going to see each other except before and after the film.

    My first date...any tips?

    I think it's his first date too... we're in 9th grade and it'll be just us, no friends.


    He's pretty shy, can be outgoing with his friends, but gets nervous and kind of quiet around me. I'm a little outgoing(used to be shy), and I used to be able to talk to him comfortably, but now I get nervous %26gt;_%26lt;


    So we're going ice skating, and I'm hoping we will both have an easier time talking since we won't be in school and eh you know.


    But do you have any tips for a first date?


    Any good topics to talk about just incase its awkward?My first date...any tips?
    I suggest that you think about questions you can ask him about himself. Even modest people like to talk about themselves, plus you can learn a lot about someone without spilling your whole life story to them and risk embarrassment. Ask him about his family, how many siblings, did he have any pets, if so what kind... places he's gone on vacation. Things he used to do when he was a little kid, etc.





    You will be surprised how much silence is worth also. Those moments where neither of you are talking, just watching people go by... those are the moments you will remember on your first date. It won't be what he said or what he did, but how you felt during those ';awkward'; moments.





    Best of luck, and remember to HAVE FUN!My first date...any tips?
    Tiips:


    1. Do NOT make it intense,,or awkward.


    2. Take abouut:


    -School.


    -Family.


    -Fun times. (times that were fuunnyy)


    -Any fav things (colour, food etc.)


    -Friends.


    3. Bring money, dont let him pay for EVERYTHING!


    4. Dont go to the bathroom alot..it would look weird.


    5. Just dress normally and dont overload on makeup.


    HAAVVEE FUUUNN XD
    Just be yourslef. Dont be nervous everything will be fine.i think that ice skating is a great sounding date. Uh ask him what are his interests. like hobbys, favorite color, fav animal things like that..
    You just have to make observations on the surroundings, on each other, what you guys are doing/watching/enjoying, and on future plans (LIMIT THIS, and don't sound clingy, tho!). A good talker can make things fun based on those 4 things alone!
    ask him about himself stuff he would tell you in school...icebreaker are really movies that out...or stuff that happened in school if anything funny happened or just talk about some mean teacher or good ol' ones..good luck on your date and have fun good night kiss remenber that guys loves that shows that your really into him
    if your gonna calculate your moves then it takes the fun out of the date...just go with the flow, if you do run out of something to say then just give him a kiss on the cheek...hahahahhaa :D :D :D :D:D
    1. Be yourself


    2. Act calm


    3. Smile and be nice


    4. Don't be afraid to talk


    5. Never be silent


    6. Yet don't get too crazy


    7. DON'T have sex
    1. Try not to fall while ice skating. If you do, laugh it off.


    2. He's just a guy, don't be nervous.
    Don't get too nervous.





    Just go with it and it will be fun. That's pretty much it, just have fun with it.





    Dates are really enjoyable if you aren't too awkward about it.
    just ask him like his hobbies and stuff,


    if you allready know them bring it up,


    since he knows those it will be easy to


    talk about.
    movies, music, weird teachers at school, ask about his family
    just be your self, have fun and do something he likes :)
    Just be yourself and talk about things you enjoy.
    Just be yourself, Smell good, practice your smile, and have fun!

    First Bowling Date.. Any Tips?

    Me and my best friend are going to do a double date going bowling. She is going with her boyfriend and I'm going with this guy I really like and I have known forever. I know he likes me and I think he is super cute too. I have kissed a guy before him but on a quick one on the lips so.. we are both 14 by the way. I'm really good at bowling and I can get pretty competitive so I don't want to act like a sissy and be like ';can you teach me how to do it?';, I would much rather kick his butt [lol] but then I don't want to embarrass him or something?





    I'm really nervous on what will happen so I need suggestions, help?





    Thanks! :)First Bowling Date.. Any Tips?
    just act naturally ok..its hard but i know you can..go girl!!!First Bowling Date.. Any Tips?
    Just play, don't show off too much. Assess his skill and be at the same level so he doesnt feel youre leaving him behind. Just make it fun, group dates take the pressure off and you guys should be relaxed and jokey.





    Have fun!
    Dont act like a sissy make it a competition in a sassy flirty way let him know you can kick his butt in bowling but do it in a cute way :)

    Second date, any tips/ suggestions...?

    going on a second date tomorrow (taking her out for breakfast) any tips on what to do and what not to do? ive been told NOT to bring her flowers (or something like that) no arm around shoulder/ hand holding. Ive also been told that since we are going out to breakfast, that I should take her out afterwards. Suggestions? Tips?Second date, any tips/ suggestions...?
    Sounds like you are going slowly (good), hand holding would be ok but just work up to it. When breakfast is over ask her if she would be free whenever you want to go out again.Second date, any tips/ suggestions...?
    well for one I wud hold her hand idk y u wudnt. and for things that you can do after bfast, it all depends on what is around you guys' location. walk on the beach,(too early for a movie.) what ever you want bro. make ur girl have a good time!
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  • First date jitters - tips from fe/males!?

    believe me, i'm boy crazy, going into junior year, so when a cute previor senior at my high school -- to be freshman in college -- asked me on a date to the movies, it was like a gift sent from _God_.





    until i realized this was the first date (where both people involved literally called it a date) that i've ever been on -- i blame it on all the douchebag guys that i've had flings with/they never made it official.





    i don't even know where my question starts. we're going to the movies (he's sneaking me into Funny People haha), but meeting up at barnes %26amp; nobles 40 minutes before hand to get refreshments and get to know each other.





    ahhhh okay; what questions do you ask? how should you act physically? ice breakers? -- i literally haven't had a conversation with him in person, so naturally my worst fear is he overestimated how intriguing i am. any advice from people good in this field?





    sorry this is long, i'm freaking out.First date jitters - tips from fe/males!?
    It's okay to be nervous.





    When my boyfriend and I started dating, I was a nervous wreck around him.





    He seen it and tried to comfort me.





    Ask things about his life. For instance, you say he is going to college? ask him how he feels about college, if he hasn't been yet what is he looking forward to in college, and if he is going now- how is college going for him.





    The more you talk to him, the more you find things about him. then question on those.





    Also, try to be funny. Because most guys like a humor in girls, and it will also bring a lot of the tension away and let you relax some.





    You should try to act yourself, laid back, and natural. But it's okay to let him see that you are nervous about the date, if he is anything like my boyfriend for 9 months he will try to help you, and calm you down to were you aren't as nervous.





    The first date jitters ALWAYS happens. It's something natural. Over time you will over come it as you become more comfortable with this person.First date jitters - tips from fe/males!?
    Don't freak out cuz all your going to do is make yourself nervous and he will definitely pick up on that. So try and stay calm and make small talk. Ask questions and try to get to know him better. Ask him about school work movies anything really to keep the conversation going im sure he'll be doing the same he's probably just as nervous as you.
    Be yourself. Act like you would with your friends. Make conversation of ur surroundings. If ure meeting at a book store ask if he reads and if he says no have a laugh about it. Ask him what kind of things does he like to do, ask about his family, ask about his childhood, ask about him going to college. One tip i have is when you ask these questions tell stories about ur life that is similar to the question.
    Okay from your picture you look cute, no homo :) anyways, just be chill and very flirty go to the sex section of the booked and make fun of the book titles. MAKE HIM LAUGH! Ask him personal questions jokingly. Also act natural, like eat the pop corn don't be like ohhh I cant eat in front of him, he'll think your weird. Good luck :)
    first and foremost, have fun with him :) remember that he is a human, just like you and he is probably just as nervous as you are.





    if conversation is lacking, you can always ask about school, what he wants to do, his favorite bands, movies, books he's read...genuinely get to know him
    hmm i would say before you meet up, have a bunch of topics to talk about just in case things get quiet. on the date, be outgoing and definately don't be shy cause then he'll get bored. during the movie you could hold his hand, or maybe even kiss if it's not too far for you on the first date. most of all though, be yourself (: it's easiest!
    your funny! just by the way your talking makes it seem like you would be easy to get along with in person! you don't have anything to worry about!





    fist talk about what you guys have in common. school. family. even though it sounds kind of stupid, get to know the obvious first, then get into deeper things.





    Just keep in mind that there is ALWAYS something to say. If you overanalyze things, it could be disastrous! Just be yourself and have fun.





    If you think about it, being nervous won't help. you have NOTHING to lose!
    If he asked you out and doesn't know you, this means he is physically attracted to you. Dress nice... BUT not too revealing... Ask him what provoked him to ask you out, his schoo major, things like that. But it is the first date so be very carefulabout the personal stuf unless he brings it up first!





    HAVE FUN!
    The best thing that you can do is to stay calm, cool, and relaxed. Don't try to be more than what you are....just be yourself. You cannot base past flings on every guy that you meet, because it will be unfair to the both of you. Listen to what he has to say, in attempt to find out more about him, and then just keep it real.
    before the date try to think of a list of questions or conversation starter just in case you get stuck in an awkward silence then you at least have something to fill the slot (so to speak) good luck and im sure it will go fine.
    just try to get to know him...don't talk about your ex...talk about what you like what u don't like...things like that...be calm and flirt...smile sweetly and giggle when he says something that was suppose to be funny, even if it wasn't. lol good luck:)
    im not a chick but i can help.


    dont overdo it.


    i like it when a girl acts herself around me.


    dont be afraid to disagree with him.


    guys like a girl who believes in her opinions
    Just be yourself, don't try to be someone your not its not attractive to a guy. If he doesn't like you for who you are then find someone who will. Good luck on the date :D
    Be natural. Don't try to over impress him.


    Be lady like with your words.


    He is not a gift from God, so don't let him act like he is.
    yeah it can be scary...dont trip out!!! First of all i would just say to be yourself and if he doesnt like it...screw him! I would try to hold his hand....touch him as much as possible...like on his arm or whatever. Laugh...it makes you seem more outgoing!
    BE YOURSELF!


    when he jokes around like laugh and touch his arm or leg, which ever way you are sitting.


    joke around with him!


    showw off your smile!
    laugh alot but dont overdo it keep the conversation flowing....thnk of stuff to talk about also touch his arm and stuff
    just be yourself.things to talk about comes up naturally just ask stuff you wanna know but not too noisy.
    just ask him about his interests and keep the convo going. and most of all, be yourself
    just be yourself! give him an occasional hug and rest on his shoulder to let him no that you think he's special :)
    hey.


    be yourself.


    if he likes you, great.


    and if he doesnt, its not worth acting to get him to like you.
    u better smile at him, that's all
    Just play it cool of course be you. Have fun because that's what you're supposed to do on a date. Do what comes naturally to you it's not like you are supposed to plan the whole date and know exactly what to say and how to act. no one can tell you that stuff. Don't look at this date as the first date ever and the last one at the same time. Know who you are and be you. If you are really in a dead moment and you fell like there is nothing to talk about talk about school, he's going to college so there's plenty to talk about there. Hell if you really have nothing to talk about it as dumb as it sounds there's always the weather to talk about. Just relax it's no big deal think of this not as a date but as hanging out with a friend, a girlfriend except you can't talk about boys. Just have fun and be you and it will show and either he will like you or he wont.
    Stop over thinking it for starters.


    Go into this date with the idea of enjoying this guy and nothing more.


    Treat him as a person you would like to make a friend, not a boyfriend, not a lover, not a future husband,...just a friend. Isn't that where it is supposed to begin?





    Yes it's natural to be a bit nervous, but when you feel yourself becoming just take a deep breath and calm your nerves and smile and remind yourself this is just a date.





    You know what I hate about dates? People are always on their best behavior. I prefer to see the real person as I believe most would, so be yourself. There is no knowing where the conversation will go, no knowing what kind of personality he is so not easy to steer you in the conversation department (ice breakers).





    Gad don't talk about yourself. Let him ask you questions about yourself. That is such a turn off, someone that wants to talk to much about themselves. If that's the case the person talking a great deal about themselves should date themselves. (Not saying that's is what you'd do, but what an overly nervous person might do.





    Relax and enjoy!
    Don't freak out! You have to approach the situation smooth %26amp; cooled so it doesn't look like you've been stresing over this! Trust me, everyone stresses over first dates but you don't know what to expect til it happens. Just feel the moment. If you plan what to do and say you could make things akward for your date and yourself, so just do what yu think is right in the moment. If he ends up being a jerk you can give gestures that show your staying distance from him. Like, at the movies you could sit at the far end of your seat tilting away from him, and he'll get the hint. If, at the end of the date you really like the guy you could give him a kiss, but not much more than that because it is a first date. BUT, don't PLAN on kissing him just incase it's not the right moment. All you can do is look your best, and you'll feel your best, and the rest will just happen.


    Good luck! :)
    here are some cardinal rules about guys, laugh at his jokes, but don't be fake, be who you are, meaning, don't offer to get him stuff if you don't want to be treated like a slave. Have good eye contact when talking to him, if he is constantly breaking eye contact he is either really nervous, or just not a trustworthy guy. talk about him first, then talk about your self. be interested, and listen to what he is saying, although i probably don't need to tell you how to listen because you are a girl. ask him what college life is like, or what sports he likes to play, if you know something about what his sports are, then show off that knowledge, i don't know about other guys, but i like to have a girl that i can watch the game with. the best thing about this is you haven't talked in person, so bring something up about his voice or some other aspect about him, guys like to be complimented.





    Hope this helped, Good luck on your date!

    First date ever tips???

    ok so this friday im going out on my first date ever, im a freshman in h.s (14) and hes a junior (15...going on 16 in sept). were going to the movies. can u please help me, like any tips.


    we met eachother like 4 wks ago and we talk evryday and see eachother (were on the same bus to and from camp...were counslers) we know eachotherr so we dont need icebreakers or anything. any advice??? thankssFirst date ever tips???
    First, be yourself (obviously).





    Wear an outfit that makes you feel confident, and that is comfortable - you don't want to spend the night tugging on straps or adjusting hems when you could be having a great time. You'll feel self-conscious about your outfit instead of focusing on your conversation.





    And really, just have a great time. Go with the flow and don't worry about having the perfect first date - it probably won't be. But enjoy it :)First date ever tips???
    *if you like him, tell him because us guys are really shy about saying these type of things. you'll make it alot easier for him.





    holding hands can be a start. go to a restaurant after the movies or go grab an ice cream.
    definitely show him that you like him hold his hand, squeeze it, kiss him if and only if you feel the moment is right and he is ready for it
    ok.. first dont seem to to eager to be with him. but still act like you wanna be there. stay calm and just let the night flow... and watever u do... dont do anything embarassing to get your reputation messed up! stay calm and just relax
    dress cute,it is a date! and just be yourself. dont act fake, just be you because if he cant like you for you, dont change. there is always more fish in the sea, and you can find somebody you deserve
    Make sure you go for a walk or somewhere for ice cream, etc...after the movie so that you actually have a chance to do some real talking.
    Just relax and have fun if it is too planned then it will not flow too well....just enjoy this blossoming friendship....remember without stress but this is the one date that your grandchildren will want to hear about......remember your age ....eye contact is good
    just be yourself and have the most fun you can have with him
    just be yourself.


    thats all you can do.
    take it slowly and dont get nerves

    First Date with Best Friend...Any tips or ideas? Any help would be appreciated!!!?

    I finally built up the courage to ask my Best-Friend (We've been best friends for about a year now...) out on a date. She said yes, and I'm super excited. Just want to know if anybody else has been in this situation or has any advice.





    Thanks!First Date with Best Friend...Any tips or ideas? Any help would be appreciated!!!?
    I have been in this situation (dating a close friend), and it can be really awkward. The main thing I would say is just do whatever you can to make her feel comfortable--first and foremost by being comfortable yourself. That will make all the difference. Just don't have any expectations or goals other than to have a good time hanging out. Beyond that, just live in the moment and see what happens.First Date with Best Friend...Any tips or ideas? Any help would be appreciated!!!?
    defintly take it slow!


    Hold her hand IF IT IS THE ABSOLUTE RIGHT TIME!


    It'd be awkward if you did anything kinda like that on your first date, but i guess if she makes the first move, then do what you gotta do haha!





    Good luck man, I had the same experience as you once before!

    First Date: Flirting Tips?

    Okay. I really like this guy, and we're going on our first date in a few days. We've hung out many times before, each time cuddling together, and have made it clear to one another that we like each other. He's pretty shy, but I'm pretty shy, too.


    We're going to the movies, and I've already gotten some advice as to what to wear, what to talk about, how to act, whether to let him pay or not, and how to know when you're ready to kiss him. But now I'd really like to know some flirting tips.


    I want to keep him interested in me. But I'm not a slut of any kind. What are some tips that could get his attention? (ex. biting your lip...)First Date: Flirting Tips?
    Aww, congrats!





    Don't worry about what to wear and how to act. You should focus on having fun. If you're trying too hard to impress this guy, it won't make for a very interesting date. Just be yourself--that is, after all, the person he likes!





    As far as flirting goes...


    ~Make eye contact, and hold it for just a little longer than normal. Smile, then look down and bite your lip.


    ~If your movie is scary, hold hands! Either way, a bit of physical contact is good. Rest your head on his shoulder so he can be blown away by how amazing your hair smells. :) You could keep a hand on his arm, knee, or leg. Whatever's comfortable for you.


    ~When you hug him, hold it for a bit longer than you usually would. When you pull away, run your hands over his shoulders and down his arms, then look up and give him a little smile.





    If you're chatting with him, keep it lively, and talk about things he's into as well. If you can relax, be yourself, and have fun, you'll definitely come off as interesting and fun to be around. The flirting is fine, but don't over do it. You want him to realize how much he likes you as a person, not just the shirt you're wearing and the way you look at him.





    Browsing through websites for magazines like Seventeen or Cosmopolitan can give you some expert tips, some of which are more detailed that what I've told you.





    Best of luck, I really hope things work out!First Date: Flirting Tips?
    Oh, I'm so glad you had fun! Congrats!

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    Seems like he already is interested, so just be yourself! Guys like different things. Things you've never thought about before he will like about you, like if you wrinkle your nose when you laugh.





    Cuddling is definately flirting


    pretend to be cold so he puts his arm around you


    pretend to be scared '; ';


    smile up at him


    brush your hand against his
    just compliments





    like ';I really like your hair'; unless the dude is bald then probably dont say that or work it in as a joke :P





    touch his arm maybe like just lightly almost as a light playful hit but look at him then pull your arm back.








    smile, be yourself all that stuff...








    joke around and be playful








    good luck! also if you have time...http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;鈥?/a>











    its been resolved kinda but i still would appretiate more answers.
    make eye contact (mega important)


    laugh at his jokes(yes, even if they arent funny)


    dont moan (big turn off)


    smile and look happy


    enjoy yourself


    be confident and comfyy (if you are comfy he prob wil be to)


    hope this helps ;-)





    also i would pay for your own ticket, he may insist he pays tho. :-)
    Make eye contact, listen to what he says. Hold eye contact longer than is comfortable.


    Look at his most attractive facial feature than in his eyes.
    Put your arm around his shoulders. Lick your lips a lot if he can take a hint. Hold hands some.
    touch his leg
    brush against his arm a little but not too much and make eye contact.

    First date ever tips?

    I am 23 years old and I recently met this woman online, who I haven't seen since elementary school. We chatted online for a few months and then she gave me her phone number. We spoke on the phone few times and she kept asking me of I wanted to meet up. The thing is, back in elementary school we were not really friends. In fact she ignored me. After her persistence and me having a few beers I agreed to meet up with her near a local cafe . Now that I am sober, I started to think WTF did I just do? I am 23 years old and never went out with a girl before. I am very, very shy (unless I have few drinks).





    Any first date tips? I feel like I am going to screw up pretty badly. Of all the dudes in the world, why would this girl want to date me, lol. I look ok, but I am very shy.





    Can anyone give me any first date tips?First date ever tips?
    You may handle it better is you look at it as not a date, but just meeting up casually with someone you went to school with. This will help you when you do want to go out on a real date.





    Think of subjects to talk about ahead of time: hobbies, family members, your old neighborhood, favorite movies, tv shows, bands, etc.





    You are different people than you were in elementary school, and sometimes kids ';ignore'; someone they actually like. Just keep it cool and casual and who knows, you may really enjoy yourself. Good luck!First date ever tips?
    You could always use the local cafe as a jumping off point. Grab a cup of coffee or whatever and then get moving! It's easier to open up (especially if you're shy) while not looking directly at the person. Go for a walk and do some window shopping or something. It's a good way to get to know someone better.
    My advise is to not make too much of it. Go have a good time. I would limit yourself to one drink or you might do something you will later regret. Don't hope to have sex, or even to kiss or hold hands; if that happens in a very natural way, go for it, but don't press it. If you both have fun, then you can take it from there.





    Have fun and respect her, be especially considerate and you will do well.





    Good luck!
    Pay attention to your date, ask about them, get them talking.


    Relax, be honest about yourself.


    Expect to have fun and keep it casual.


    Leave the condoms at home (or at least in the glove compartment).
    A lot of people change after high school.


    You do not need a few drinks to get out of your shyness.


    Don't put on a act when you meet this lady


    Be your self.
    First date? I see two people who haven't seen each other in a long time getting together for a chat. Act normal. Be yourself.
    I just posted an article about being confident with women on my blog.





    One big piece of advice, don't worry! Never go on a date and think about getting married and going to bed with her! Think about going to have fun and making a friend.





    Set yourself a smaller goal than the ultimate girlfriend or wife goal you are really after. How about going on a date with the goal in mind to just have fun?





    Most of all, act like you act around your friends. That's who you are. Don't put on a different you just for a date. She wont get to know you if you pretend.





    Women care about personality, not looks! She wants to meet you, so you don't have to do anything crazy to impress her or make her interested in you. She already is, she wants more of you. Just give her a little bit more, not everything! And don't drink on a first date!





    Last piece of advise. She will be just as nervous as you. So don't worry! Just have a nice cup of coffee!

    First Date with Best Friend...Any tips or ideas? Any help would be appreciated!!!?

    I finally built up the courage to ask my Best-Friend (We've been best friends for about a year now...) out on a date. She said yes, and I'm super excited. Just want to know if anybody else has been in this situation or has any advice.





    Thanks!First Date with Best Friend...Any tips or ideas? Any help would be appreciated!!!?
    Be yourself. She likes you for you and she would not be going out with you if she did not like you. The only thing you have to do, is be a little bit more romantic and take her out on dates. Hope this helps. Good luck.
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  • Date tomorrow!! tips&help! (10pts best answer!)?

    tomorrow my boyfriend is coming to my house for the first time. he's only come to my house when another one of my friends has come, and i'm kindof nervous. i haven't had my first kiss yet and he said he wants 2 kiss me. also he's mentioned making out a few times. i really really love him and want 2 kiss him, but i havent even had my first kiss yet and im not sure i want 2 full out make out with him. what should i do if he does?? kissing tips are welcome :) and what should i do if he tells me he wants 2 make out with me? what if he starts?? help!!!!





    thanks sooo much!!! 10 pts best answer!!Date tomorrow!! tips%26amp;help! (10pts best answer!)?
    just be yourself. (lame but true) be flirty to. dont be afraid to grab his hand or something either. be confident. if your nervous he will be to.





    and if he kisses you kiss him. and if he trys to make out with you then go with the flow. you cant really describe how to makeout. but it is a natural thing. it kinda just comes to you. follow his lead. and do something with your hands. put them behind his neck or something. play with his hair even. just dont be an arm dangler lol





    hope i helped =))Date tomorrow!! tips%26amp;help! (10pts best answer!)?
    Well first off, don't let him see that your nervous. And when kissing, the dude mostly does everything so all you have to do is enjoy and don't really do much. Also making out may lead up to sex, just don't take it too far.
    don't do anthing that you are unsure of.


    if you want to kiss him, just go with the flow and make sure to tilt your head a bit. :)


    i wouldn't make out right away, esp, since it would be after your first kiss.


    take it slow and don't let him pressure you.
    Go up and hug him, but don't let go. Then just look up at him, and just lock your eyes onto his. He'll get it and go in for the kiss. After that, it's easy sailing. :) Just do what feels right. :) Good luck.
    alright so tell him you just want a kiss fist. then. if you want more. ....and it he starts, just go with it. its not to hard. dont be to nervous.





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    http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=ApzE8vP0_Pjlo7kK4TzqsbHsy6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20090629122844AAmXVtZ
    well ok i understand about being nervous but if you truly like or love this guy hen go for it and put aside all fears...
    just kiss him its not hard good luck and thanks for answering mine
    just kiss him you'll understand when u do

    Plz need tips on dates ?

    I'm going out with this girl, but I need tips on where to take her %26amp; how to interact with her. plz.Plz need tips on dates ?
    movies, to the park...let her do most of the talking, be a good listener.

    I'm gay. I'm about to go on my first real date ever. Any tips?

    I'm soo nervous. He's sooo cute and I'm afraid I'll do something wrong. AHHHH! What should I keep in mind everyone?I'm gay. I'm about to go on my first real date ever. Any tips?
    Like any other date just try to be yourself. If you are fake about anything on the first date they will remember and it will come back to bite you in the long run.


    Most importantly be yourself and have fun. If you can't have fun on a date or in a relationship. It is not worth it.


    GOOD LUCK%26lt;3








    and I apologize for the a**hole that answered in front of me.I'm gay. I'm about to go on my first real date ever. Any tips?
    Try not to get AIDS
    Be yourself and if he can't accept you. Move on. Have fun and enjoy the time.
    act normal...good luck

    Guys what are Ur secret tips and ideas for an unforgettable perfect date?

    what to do


    or say or make or prepare and organised


    and specially what to avoid


    i always sploied my dates and turn it into fight or debate instead of amusing it maybe i dont prepare for it as well as it should so what do u think makes ur date perfect and romantic





    tell me some ideas (i have my ideas) but im not good enough in maintaining peace and romance for more than an hour





    what do u propose to organise a super perfect date full of romance and without fighting LOLGuys what are Ur secret tips and ideas for an unforgettable perfect date?
    First of all, if you want a date that a girl will like, maybe you should be asking the girls instead of the guys ;)





    If it's a first date, to avoid stress and unnecessary awkwardness, pick an activity that won't put pressure on either one of you to come up with conversation. Try a movie or minigolf or a concert or something like that. There are plenty of fun things to do that will still give you a chance to get to know your date.





    After you are a little more comfortable with each other, then you can try the dinner or something that involves more conversation.





    I'm not sure what you are talking about with your dates to turn them into an argument, but until you know someone better you should definitely be avoiding controversial topics like politics and religion.





    What I have found to be the most romantic part of the dates I've enjoyed is being with a date who seems to be genuinely interested in getting to know me. Ask your date questions about herself, and then ask follow-up questions. Ask her where she grew up, listen to her (don't interrupt or cut her off), then ask her what she liked best about growing up or something like that.





    You can talk about yourself too, but don't overdue it. Using the previous example, you could share something interesting or funny about your childhood. Hopefully she's a decent conversationalist, and will also ask you questions about yourself as well.





    Stay focused on the purpose of the date: getting to know each other so you can find out if you are compatible enough to keep going on dates. If you find yourself arguing, you are probably concentrating more on your own opinions and why you think they are better than getting to know your date and find out why she thinks the way she does.





    As far as the romance goes, you should tailor the date to what the girl is interested in, and show her that you are anticipating her needs. If she likes the outdoors, take her on a picnic in a park. Find out what kinds of food she likes if you can, and bring that. To anticipate her needs, bring an extra blanket in case she gets cold.





    And just to clarify, I don't think that all this preparation necessarily always needs to be done by the guy for the girl. Whoever asks the other person out on the date should be responsible for the preparation and making sure his/her date's needs are being met.

    Tips on getting into R rated movies with a date?

    how can you get into R rated movies if you and your date aren't and don't look like you're 17+?





    some tips would be niceTips on getting into R rated movies with a date?
    I agree with Viscous, just don't ask the ticket stub person where the other movie is. Look for it while you're walking to the concession stand and while you're waiting in line. Then just casually walk to the other movie, preferably when the ticket stub person is ripping off another guest's ticket.Tips on getting into R rated movies with a date?
    buy a ticket for a not-r-rated-movie.


    then ask the ticket stub guy (minimal wage, doesnt usually care what you do) where the other movie is.
    buy the ticket from the ticket machine in the theater


    works every time=)
    buy tickets online... works every time

    Tips on getting into R rated movies with a date?

    how can you get into R rated movies if you and your date aren't and don't look like you're 17+?





    some tips would be niceTips on getting into R rated movies with a date?
    have someone who's 17+ buy the tickets in advance.








    but I don't think your girl necessarily wants to see R rated movies, maybe YOU do, but you should be doing what she wants (they're girls, after all....)Tips on getting into R rated movies with a date?
    If you're close to 17 and the movie doesnt have anything like ';scenes of drug use or and gang warfare'; or ';nudity and strong sexual content'; odds are they won't check your ID. If you don't think they will let you in, just buy tickets to a different movie but walk in the one you want to see. Be sure you walk in after the lights go out and sit in the back.
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  • What are some tips for double dates?

    A friend of mine and his girlfriend are setting me up with one of her friends, for a double date with them. First, I don't know her (the girlfriend) that well to carry conversation that would be normal to acquaintences. Second, after the invention of myspace, a lot of normal conversation is elimated through profiles. Where do you go from here? I don't want to create awkward conversation between me and my friend and avoid it between his girlfriend and her friend.What are some tips for double dates?
    try to get them to take you both out dancing. get up and dance and ask and answer lots of questions. that way you get to know her personaly and with out interfearence from your friends.What are some tips for double dates?
    Just because myspace states what they want people to know, dosen't mean that can't can't talk more in depth about some subjects. It will Show them that your actually interested and not just their because you had nuthin better to do. Once you get talking, it can be really fun. But don't forget to talk about yourself as well, so you can relate to some stuff. Try to stay away from the embarrassing stories.
    Myspace has changed the rules/image of dating. People don't take the time to get to know you. They think it's spelled out on your website. They think they know you.





    . Have a glass of wine before you go. Pretend that you never even met her on Myspace and are meeting her and seeing her for the first time. Relax, have fun, and go with it. After all, it is ONLY a date, not a marriage. If it works, cool, if not..... no loss; it wasn't meant to be. NEXT!!
    don't go


    decline


    ideally you want to go on the date solo


    not with a tag along


    as that's all you'll be


    the girl will have a safe out and be less embarrased if she does not like you


    hence why some do double dates, they want that out just in case
    I personally don't think it's a good idea to go on a blind date on a first date on a double date. First of all, you should never go on a group date as a first date. It should just be you and her. But it's up to you.

    I have a date tomorrow, any tips ideas?

    Hi! I have a date with my boyfriend and I don't really know what to wear like makeup and dress... its bowling and dinner its tomorrow.... I dont want to over kill it but then I still want to look nice. What do you suggest? =D Thanks!!I have a date tomorrow, any tips ideas?
    jean shorts with a flowy top and cute necklaces and a soft smokey eye with nude lips with hair down or in a cute ponytail =]I have a date tomorrow, any tips ideas?
    skinny jeans and a loose flowy shirt would look cute. and whatever shoes you decide to wear just remember to throw socks into your bag. you DEFINITELY don't want to wear bowling shoes without socks. as for make up keep it light and natural looking. that's the most flattering in the summertime. have fun.





    -hope i helped.

    Going on a blind date need advice/help/tips :P?

    My buddy was talkin to his woman about going to some haunted house, she thought it'd be fun if she brought her friend and he brought me. now it should be pretty dope im just wondering what i can do to not look like a loser. like what do you talk about when you dont even know the person? i just dont wanna embarass myself in case i happen to like her :P well any advice will help thanks :PGoing on a blind date need advice/help/tips :P?
    I would be cute to be overly scared and needy - if you play it up, she will think it is funny and cute and charmingGoing on a blind date need advice/help/tips :P?
    just be yourself, talk to her like you've known her for a while , and ask questions, it always helps to ask questions when you don't know a person, so you can get to know them
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    I need good tips on where to take a woman on a first date ? I live in Atlanta Georgia.?

    Horseradish Grill. A concert. The high museum. Many other nice places.I need good tips on where to take a woman on a first date ? I live in Atlanta Georgia.?
    The best date is a series of dates in one.





    Start with meeting somewhere netural, take her to a mesume, then a snack, then hiking or a park, a movie and then dinner. but don't let her know where all you are going.. just not to make plans for the rest of the day.





    Be yourself and if this date does not get you another one, then she was NOT the one. trust me.I need good tips on where to take a woman on a first date ? I live in Atlanta Georgia.?
    If you are in South Atlanta (College Park, East Point area) try The Pecan for dinner. They are located on Main St. across from the College Park MARTA station. Or try Bed for a unique dining experience they are located near Philips arena.





    The High Museum has music events on Thursday or Friday, The Fernbank Museum does a jazz thing on Fridays. Check the Fox Theatre or the Rialto Theater for their event schedule. They usually have concerts or plays going on.





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    I am going tommorow on my first date...any tips please?

    Just be yourself, and you'll see that everything falls into place....I am going tommorow on my first date...any tips please?
    (if your a guy) act like a real gentlemen, dont act mature, and make the girl laugh...


    ( if your a female) just act normal and i dont know i just act myself and talk with the guy and make him laugh too (you know that way he could laugh instead of only him making you laugh) but any way


    plain in simple for the opposite sexes act normal and very matureI am going tommorow on my first date...any tips please?
    I don't care that it is 2008,





    tell her how nice she looks - and something special is to GENTLY hold her hand. Pay attention to her.





    BE a gentleman! There are gentlemen at all ages. gezzzzz hopefully you are a male - if not, if he doesn't treat you right, he's not a keeper.
    well be kind and considerate, i mean don't do things that are to flashy or inappropriate i mean it should be okay as long as you be polite and try and hold a good convo.:) im sure you will have a great first date.
    Be yourself and when you get there make ure that you compliment them a lot. Every choice that they made to prepare for the date MUST be complimented or they'll swoop down on you (jk, but it;s a good thing to do).
    Well, don't be late picking your date up. That's one of the most disrespectful things you can do, in my opinion.
    Okay just like don't do nothing stupid wear something sexxxxxaaaayyyyy
    Get some flowers and a condom thats a good first date for ya! Beyaaaaaaaaah!
    DON'T HAVE SEX!!! Everyone who has done that has always regreted it.
    Be on time, smell good and brush your teeth just in case.
    if ur breath smells take some pomegranate seeds withyou and suck on them whenever possible
    Just be yourself and have fun!!
    dont be a dumbass

    Too early too date? and tips?

    i have a boyfriend but he's been acting weird and recently(1 week ago) this other boy i like just broke up with his sl*g of a girlfriend i really like him xxxxxx is it too early to ask him out or should i go for itxxxxx any tips for dumping my current boyfriend who has bad temper issues?:)xxxxToo early too date? and tips?
    break up with him in public- just in case his temper gets out of control. As for the other guy - go for it!!!!


    Lifes too short to sit around and wait for stuff to happen =)


    Good LuckToo early too date? and tips?
    It all depends on if ye want to stay friends with yer current boyfriend or not. If so... the ye 'll hae to stay calm and make sure ye tell him ye mean nowt by it. Just say ye don't think it's working, and hopefully he agrees. If not, the dog and bone is always open. Whether texting or yakking (i prefer texting...)he won't be able to get as angry, then ye don't hae to deal with those emotions on either side. I hope that helped!
    well i dont think it is a bad i idea to ask the one out that u lik .. but wit ur current bf idk.. has he ever gotten in a fight


    because.. if u started to date the other guy ur current bf would possibly try to fight the guy u lik.. this is wat i think
    ok i got it. . . .you say he has temper priblems so just get him mad and act like you are mad at the end be like you know what its over im tired of your s*** and their you go it will be easy trust me iv been there lol
    dump your bf but dont make any moves on that toehr guy right now...





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    Break up with the boyfriend on the phone!


    Its always a winner
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  • I like this one girl that says she doesnt really date.... any tips? part 2?

    well... she says she doesnt but also says she knows ppl that like her. which is wierd.. but at first it was like ';oh yeah, sure we could chill'; to ';are you open at all????'; like after just a few days it progressed to us hanging out more than her and some of her other friends.. plus we talk to each other about quite a few things... like even to the point of somewhat personal things.. she started it too....I like this one girl that says she doesnt really date.... any tips? part 2?
    start being friends, than friends with benefits and it will eventaully fall into place. maybe once you get to know her she isnt what you want in a girlfriends. maybe her looks only got you and if shes a jerk move on. you dont want to waste your time on a person you dont LOVE.I like this one girl that says she doesnt really date.... any tips? part 2?
    Girls that like you, let you know they like you. I would question her intentions.

    Having movie date any tips?

    Just enjoy the movie and eat pop corn and just have fun! Dress nice and have a good time and you be safe now! Just be your self!Having movie date any tips?
    have fun and joke around. dont talk too much unless hes talking to you becuase guys get annoyed with talking during a good movie.Having movie date any tips?
    Get close to him at the movie, let him know its ok to put his arm around you.
    try to get close! (if thats what you want) cuddle! Enjoy the movie!!
    touch him ALOT and get close, real close...sit in the back 2

    Date in the mall...tips from guys and girls plz!! :)?

    i have a date at the mall with the guy i like. we both like each other and it is like an arrange marriage date, but i have known him for couple months now and have been talking via msn, email, phone. I want to know what kind of things i should do and talk about at the mall with him. should i buy him something or should i accept something if he buys for me. plz advice..so nervous..Date in the mall...tips from guys and girls plz!! :)?
    The mall is a fun place so you could go to different stores and find out what his interests are what kind of stores attracts him and do the same. Through this you'll find out some things that you like are simliar to his. Also if he buys you a gift accept it and tell him that he's really sweet and show that you appreciate it. Talk about what kind of food he likes and go to the food court and offer him some of the food you bought.

    FIRST DATE!!!! Any tips?!?

    yayyyy im so thrilled right now.


    so apparantly we're having a picnic at the park (hehe) does that sound like a good plan?


    and its.....probably going to be the most awkward thing ever. both of us are pretty damn awkward in ourselves so thatll be interesting. we'll probably just end up with ';whats ur favorite movie? whats ur favorite color? whats ur favorite fruit?'; etc.





    and he'll be drivingFIRST DATE!!!! Any tips?!?
    Don't push it..anything at all and do try to be urself. Do not chat too much especially about urself. Listen and pay attention.

    1st date any tips?

    im going with the foreign exhange student named juan1st date any tips?
    Try not to be too stressed out and have fun. Good luck.

    First Date Ideas/Tips?

    Hey I am having a first date with a girl i know from school next week and I was just looking for some ideas/tips as to what to do. Any help is much appreciated.


    p.s. I'm 17First Date Ideas/Tips?
    well comming from a girl, my first date ever in the history of my life was when i was 16. and believe me, i wished that maybe the guy had payed for stuff. but my second date with a different person, was beautiful. She took me to the movies, then took me for a walk in the area. there was trees that had little white x-mas lights all around them, and there was this fountain area where the water shot up from the ground and in that moment, we kissed in between the fountains and lit up trees. I think you should set up dinner at a park, between a few trees or A tree and get a few of those electric lanterns and have and EVENING PICNIC under the stars! she'll love it! Good luck!!First Date Ideas/Tips?
    go bowling.... that's a good way to talk and waste a few hours.... trash talking about horrible bowling skills.... or helping her learn... which ever...
    unless your really comfortable with each other avoid quiet dinner areas, be yourself have fun


    pick something to do that you will both find fun an amusing


    and dont try too hard to impress her.


    good luck have fun
    Be yourself, everyone know's that, she already agreed to go out with you, you must bedoing something right. Pay for whatever you do with her but don't be rude and don't act like your better than anyone else. Biggest thing ever, if she say's she want's to pay, only ask her once and if she say's no than say, okay.
    the movies


    bowling/pool


    concert


    club


    dinner








    see what she wants to do based on what she likes





    good luck!
    Don't say nothin
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  • Im going 2 go on a blind date on sat n i need tips on wat to wear?

    im fat so i need something cute that will suit me at the same time please help!!Im going 2 go on a blind date on sat n i need tips on wat to wear?
    It really does depend on where you are going to for the date. If its to see a movie, then i suggest a pair of fitted jeans and a super cute sweater with loads of accessories, if its a posh dinner i suggest a knee lenght dress, preferably in a dark coulour to make you look trim and elegant. And ofcourse sparkly jewlry to compliment the dark coloured dress. And if you have no idea where you are going to then keep it in between. A pair of skinny jeans, a waistcoat and heels is perfect for casual or formal, (especially if youare not sure.)


    Good luck on the date, and make sure any oufit you pick from these are comfy. Have loads of fun, babes. Im excited for you.Im going 2 go on a blind date on sat n i need tips on wat to wear?
    aww...dont' say you're fat





    well, most definitely, wear something that's not too skimpy, especially on a blind date.


    If i were you, I would wear a camisole and a cardigan over it with some dark jeans and flip-flops...nothing too casual





    there is nothing worse than being wayy overdressed for a blind date
    ooo blind dates suck...whatt r u doing??
    abercrombie.
    be yourself





    feel both comfortable and sexy as well as confident





    itll help you a lottt
    dont wear anything to revealing


    wear somehting in a color you like


    dont wear anything tight in the wrong places


    wear something casual and nice


    wear some pretty jewlry maybe

    I have a hot date tonight!! Tips?

    Yes, Apple finally asked me out, and im going on a date with her tonight at an Italian resteraunt. We were going to go to chinese, but then we found out that they serve meals with apples and oranges in them, so we are going to steer clear of them.





    Any tips for me tonight? Wish me luck!I have a hot date tonight!! Tips?
    save money.stay home and eat each other.I have a hot date tonight!! Tips?
    Don't be depressed
    First of all,congratulations on your date.I'd dress nice,wear good colonge,bring flowers,show up on time,and just be yourself.Good luck.
    Brush your teeth, look her in the eye and laugh at her jokes.
    Use protection if there is going to be any exchange of juices!!!
    haha just be urself mr. orange :)
    This question should be posted in the Singles and Dating section.
    Behave yourself-don't make moves on her, scare her off, etc.-(I knew a guy who was like that.) -in otherwords, be a ';gentleman';.(there's some tips) but good luck
    ..Don't let her squeeze you too hard!
    smile :)
    Lol....Good luck.Just dont mees up!just act as you normally do and everthing will be just fine.Do tell me if your date was successful later,please.lol...
    my life is wasted, just do whatever you want man, best of luck
    Don't put on a sour face
    make sure you wear your peel
    Take is easy. Be yourself. Tell her what you like. Don't forget the great French kiss at the end of date.
    you son of a bish that was my lady!
    I wish you luck tonight and all nights in future. Stay away from cucumbers, and stick to almonds.
    just dont mention your addiction to p%26amp;s!
    hv a cool shower 2nte , %26amp; pls apply perfume .
    give her a litlle tappity tap tap ;)
    if you need tips, then it ain't a hot date





    good luck, but why did you wait for Apple to ask you out?
    Smell fragrant, as u oranges do!- after your delightful meal you and apple don't squeeze each other too tight or you'll squeeze the life out of each other.


    WELL done at pipping the others to the post to bag your woman!!
    Yes , get a seat away from the kitchen.
    hang in the fridge.
    Squeeze her tight and get the Juices flowing ,if you know what i mean ;p
    Best of luck and stay away from all bananas.
    man~! you are funnay!





    Try going to a hawaiian restaurant. Or go to indian ones
    don,t wait for the pips
    Do not peel or pare each other fully on the 1st date...





    (I can tell you ';pine'; apple for her...and make sure the Mango chaperones to keep things properly fruitful)





    Save that until you ';orange'; sure you're both in love...





    (Save your navel and her seeds for the next time...behave yourselves...don't act like a couple of nasty vegetables...those crass zucchinis and cucumbers are always too much the ';pillars'; of the community...)





    Oh...and try not to compare yourselves with each other...it's like...well...it's like that...
    With questions like this, you couldnt even get a date with an apple you stupid Fu*K! Grow up and get laid.

    I like this one girl that says she doesnt really date.... any tips?

    basically the question.. i also wanted to have some ';fun'; as well, cause shes in my car a lot and stuff.





    we do get high together a lot nowadays and she does want to hang out a lot more too since we met last wed.... i really like her but she says she doesnt date which sucks.. i dont really know what to do..I like this one girl that says she doesnt really date.... any tips?
    Well for one, don't take advantage of her when she isn't sober. Because that'll probably bite you in the butt eventually.I like this one girl that says she doesnt really date.... any tips?
    well hun it sounds to me like she like you...otherwise she would want to hang out with you as often....my suggestion is to just give her time she should come around.
    if she says she dosnt date then she is not interested in a relationship that is more serious than friends. she wants to be ur friend and thats all.
    It seems like you just met, give her some time. If she can't really date now, then you can always be friends. If you are friends, then when she can date, she might date you.
    sorry but if she told you she doesn't want to date then she just wants to be your friend. Trying to push anything further will just make her not want to be your friend...

    I have a date! need tips on eyeliner!!!!!!!!?

    I have no idea how to put on eyeliner. HELP!I have a date! need tips on eyeliner!!!!!!!!?
    okay well its actually better if someone helps you in person because its really hard to explain over a computer or on here, but I'm going to try my best. First of all, if you wear contacts make sure you put them in BEFORE using the eyeliner. Secondly, make sure you face is clean or it wont go on smoothly. okay now is the time to wear the eyeliner. Gently with your index finger and pull down you skin a littler near your eye, then as you are holding it down with your other hand use the eyeliner where you bottom eyelashes are, and just draw along that line, don't be rough with it. That's all that i can say or explain on here





    If you need anymore advice, you can join the website below and I will be more than helpful to answer your questions!I have a date! need tips on eyeliner!!!!!!!!?
    pencil or liquid?





    If you are using liquid and it is NOT water proof then just swoop it messily across your lid and use a wetted Q-tip to fix the line and make it nice and smooth





    If you are using liquid waterproof do the same technique but instead of wetting the Q-tip with water, cover it in lotion so the oils will take off the waterproof eyeliner





    If you are using a pencil be sure it is sharp and pull the corner of your eye slightly so your lid straightens out a bit. follow along the rim above the lashes and fix any mistakes

    I am going on my first date any tips or advice would be helpful?

    I was interviewed by an online dating website and by the press because of the online dating.





    I've given the same advice to people on that website.





    My advice is this:





    Don't build up the hype. Don't make a ';Real Life Meet'; a big event. Same as going on a date - don't make it a big event.





    Treat it as ';going out and having a laugh';.





    Why?





    Because if you hype it up, and put it all that effort, then expectations are very high on each side. And if you have expectations, then you risk disappointment. The higher the expectations, the bigger the risk of failing to satisfy those expectations.





    My attitude is, ';I don't date, I go out and meet a new friend.'; That way, I'm me, and she can be herself. I'm myself, and she can be herself. We have a laugh. We're not afraid to sit there in silence for a few seconds until something natural pops into our heads to say. We're not fighting to fill in those silent gaps with something clever to say to make ourselves look good.





    You're going out with a mate. Treat it like that. Because that has certain advantages too:





    If you don't click in that way, then you still have a great evening with a new friend, and you've made a new friendship.





    but if anything else does happen, it's natural and not forced.





    And of course, you're not nervous when meeting a mate. You're you, you're confident, you laugh when you feel like it, you joke when you feel like it.





    So, treat your date not as a date, but as a new friend you're going out. Be yourself. Have a bit to drink just to relax yourself - and have a laugh :)





    The only expectation: have fun and a laugh.





    Anything else is a bonus and a nice surprise if it happens :)I am going on my first date any tips or advice would be helpful?
    Just relax be yourself, have fun and don't do anything your not ready to do.I am going on my first date any tips or advice would be helpful?
    Hygiene is a must.
    be real don't try to act like your something other than you are have humor don't be too serious make eye contact don't go look at other people concentrate on who you are with and just have fun good luck
    Be confident, don't be like ';oh, hi, um hi';


    Be yourself, don't order a salad when you really crave a hamburger


    Have fun, if you make a mistake just laugh about it.


    A date is only a big deal as you make it, don't overreact and over-analyze and over-worry everything that is said, just deal with it.


    Try and keep the conversation flowing, if you're in the same classes or whatever talk about teachers, if you like sports or music or food or whatever you want to talk about.





    Just remember - don't say something that you aren't. Don't say ';Oh I love the color pink'; when you really hate it because then you're going to get presents in pink and people are going to be asking about pink when you really like red. You know?


    Good luck.
    don't be nervous.
    Try not to be too nervous. Talk about things you both like. Make fun of teachers. Ask what his goals are and seem positive. Be free.[ Don't eat too much.(just kidding)]
    kiss him
    Open questions get people talking and that's what you want in order to get a good handle on that person's personality. There is nothing worse when meeting someone for the first time then that awkward silence after greeting each other. Kick the silence into orbit. Here's a few conversation starters:





    What did you do last weekend?





    What do you do for fun?





    What are you most passionate about?





    Are you more of a city or mountain person?





    What kind of movies do you like?





    What kind of music do you like?





    Where are you from originally?





    What do you do for a living (company names should not be divulged).





    What have you learned from your past relationships?





    What are the most important things you're looking for in a person?





    What do you consider your best attributes?





    If you could be granted 3 wishes, what would they be?





    Which famous people would you invite to your perfect dinner party. And why?





    If you had to be someone else, who would you be and why?





    What's your favourite wine?





    What would be your ideal holiday destination - you can go and do whatever you want?





    What's the most reckless thing you've ever done?





    What's your most memorable moment?





    What song best sums you up and why?





    If you won the lottery how would you spend it?





    What three things would you take with you to a desert island?





    What time in history would you have liked to be born in and why?





    If you were to star in a movie, what kind of film would it be and who would be your co-star?





    So I hope this helps you good luck
    have a plan. don't make the other person make all of the decisions. ask them about their interest without judgements. enjoy momnets of silence. don't talk about past relationships, depression, or hurt. take risks... laugh, dance, be merry.
    Dont go out to eat.
    just be yourself. be honest and truthful. have some humor to make it interesting.
    dont get laid on first date that is a bad sign
    be yourself.
    Make it yours.
    undertand that you'll be nervous...dont talk to much...smile...ask questions - people LOVE talking about themselves.





    HAVE FUN

    First Movie date need tips!?

    i've liked this girl for a while now and she's fun and nice. I finally got the courage to ask her and were going to the movies. And i do not know what to do kiss her hold her hand what?First Movie date need tips!?
    put your arm round her during the movie...and btw wath a scary one definatly cuz then she will like feel safe with you there.


    I'de prefere that don't watch any cartoon **** watch horror!!!


    First Movie date need tips!?
    hold her hand during the movie
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  • My first date!!! any tips! ?

    frensh kiss or kiss


    no kiss?


    wat to wear?


    My first date!!! any tips! ?
    kiss.








    casual.





    My first date!!! any tips! ?
    You should wear something cute yet simple, nothing revealing you'll look like a wh*re. If everything turns out alright and you had a great time and you like him then go ahead and kiss him and don't forget to hug him. If it was bad then just a hug. French kiss may be too much, save that for a future date you don't want to move to fast.





    Be yourself and best of luck.
    Wear a cute top with a cute design match it with jeans %26amp; nice pair of sneakers. If you don't like this one choose a dressing top with a cute shirt %26amp; comfortable shoes.


    Nice perfume in both kind of outfit try out sweet honesty from avon or try a oil base perfume. As far as a kiss let him kiss you but then make the second move if u like his kiss by wrapping your arms around his waist and press him against you. Then say wow that is impressive kiss. Then hug him.
    NEVER kiss on the first date. moving wayy oo fast. get to know him more.





    wear something cute and flirty like skinny jeans and a dressy flow-out top. wear blush and light eye makeup. look natural and flirty. u should curl your hair too.
    NO kiss!!!!! respect urself hes gunna thinkk ur easy





    wear watever you feel confident in


    don't try to impress him if hes gunna like you





    then hes gunna like you








    but definetly NO KISS not even on the second date,thats a little bit trashy
    deffinatly a kiss.


    You will know when the time comes what kind of kiss you want it to be.


    Depends on where your going on what you want to wear.


    :]


    good luck!
    For the kiss thing, let him lead you through that. And for an outfit, I'd need to know where your going?
    Any thing that you feel good with.. do and wear so you will feel good about it.
    aah i remember my first date :)


    dont stress over it - just have fun

    Im going 2 go on a blind date on sat n i need tips on wat to wear?

    im fat so i need something cute that will suit me at the same time please help!!Im going 2 go on a blind date on sat n i need tips on wat to wear?
    It really does depend on where you are going to for the date. If its to see a movie, then i suggest a pair of fitted jeans and a super cute sweater with loads of accessories, if its a posh dinner i suggest a knee lenght dress, preferably in a dark coulour to make you look trim and elegant. And ofcourse sparkly jewlry to compliment the dark coloured dress. And if you have no idea where you are going to then keep it in between. A pair of skinny jeans, a waistcoat and heels is perfect for casual or formal, (especially if youare not sure.)


    Good luck on the date, and make sure any oufit you pick from these are comfy. Have loads of fun, babes. Im excited for you.Im going 2 go on a blind date on sat n i need tips on wat to wear?
    aww...dont' say you're fat





    well, most definitely, wear something that's not too skimpy, especially on a blind date.


    If i were you, I would wear a camisole and a cardigan over it with some dark jeans and flip-flops...nothing too casual





    there is nothing worse than being wayy overdressed for a blind date
    ooo blind dates suck...whatt r u doing??
    abercrombie.
    be yourself





    feel both comfortable and sexy as well as confident





    itll help you a lottt
    dont wear anything to revealing


    wear somehting in a color you like


    dont wear anything tight in the wrong places


    wear something casual and nice


    wear some pretty jewlry maybe

    I have a hot date tonight!! Tips?

    Yes, Apple finally asked me out, and im going on a date with her tonight at an Italian resteraunt. We were going to go to chinese, but then we found out that they serve meals with apples and oranges in them, so we are going to steer clear of them.





    Any tips for me tonight? Wish me luck!I have a hot date tonight!! Tips?
    save money.stay home and eat each other.I have a hot date tonight!! Tips?
    Don't be depressed
    First of all,congratulations on your date.I'd dress nice,wear good colonge,bring flowers,show up on time,and just be yourself.Good luck.
    Brush your teeth, look her in the eye and laugh at her jokes.
    Use protection if there is going to be any exchange of juices!!!
    haha just be urself mr. orange :)
    This question should be posted in the Singles and Dating section.
    Behave yourself-don't make moves on her, scare her off, etc.-(I knew a guy who was like that.) -in otherwords, be a ';gentleman';.(there's some tips) but good luck
    ..Don't let her squeeze you too hard!
    smile :)
    Lol....Good luck.Just dont mees up!just act as you normally do and everthing will be just fine.Do tell me if your date was successful later,please.lol...
    my life is wasted, just do whatever you want man, best of luck
    Don't put on a sour face
    make sure you wear your peel
    Take is easy. Be yourself. Tell her what you like. Don't forget the great French kiss at the end of date.
    you son of a bish that was my lady!
    I wish you luck tonight and all nights in future. Stay away from cucumbers, and stick to almonds.
    just dont mention your addiction to p%26amp;s!
    hv a cool shower 2nte , %26amp; pls apply perfume .
    give her a litlle tappity tap tap ;)
    if you need tips, then it ain't a hot date





    good luck, but why did you wait for Apple to ask you out?
    Smell fragrant, as u oranges do!- after your delightful meal you and apple don't squeeze each other too tight or you'll squeeze the life out of each other.


    WELL done at pipping the others to the post to bag your woman!!
    Yes , get a seat away from the kitchen.
    hang in the fridge.
    Squeeze her tight and get the Juices flowing ,if you know what i mean ;p
    Best of luck and stay away from all bananas.
    man~! you are funnay!





    Try going to a hawaiian restaurant. Or go to indian ones
    don,t wait for the pips
    Do not peel or pare each other fully on the 1st date...





    (I can tell you ';pine'; apple for her...and make sure the Mango chaperones to keep things properly fruitful)





    Save that until you ';orange'; sure you're both in love...





    (Save your navel and her seeds for the next time...behave yourselves...don't act like a couple of nasty vegetables...those crass zucchinis and cucumbers are always too much the ';pillars'; of the community...)





    Oh...and try not to compare yourselves with each other...it's like...well...it's like that...
    With questions like this, you couldnt even get a date with an apple you stupid Fu*K! Grow up and get laid.

    I like this one girl that says she doesnt really date.... any tips?

    basically the question.. i also wanted to have some ';fun'; as well, cause shes in my car a lot and stuff.





    we do get high together a lot nowadays and she does want to hang out a lot more too since we met last wed.... i really like her but she says she doesnt date which sucks.. i dont really know what to do..I like this one girl that says she doesnt really date.... any tips?
    Well for one, don't take advantage of her when she isn't sober. Because that'll probably bite you in the butt eventually.I like this one girl that says she doesnt really date.... any tips?
    well hun it sounds to me like she like you...otherwise she would want to hang out with you as often....my suggestion is to just give her time she should come around.
    if she says she dosnt date then she is not interested in a relationship that is more serious than friends. she wants to be ur friend and thats all.
    It seems like you just met, give her some time. If she can't really date now, then you can always be friends. If you are friends, then when she can date, she might date you.
    sorry but if she told you she doesn't want to date then she just wants to be your friend. Trying to push anything further will just make her not want to be your friend...

    Thursday, January 21, 2010

    I have a date! need tips on eyeliner!!!!!!!!?

    I have no idea how to put on eyeliner. HELP!I have a date! need tips on eyeliner!!!!!!!!?
    okay well its actually better if someone helps you in person because its really hard to explain over a computer or on here, but I'm going to try my best. First of all, if you wear contacts make sure you put them in BEFORE using the eyeliner. Secondly, make sure you face is clean or it wont go on smoothly. okay now is the time to wear the eyeliner. Gently with your index finger and pull down you skin a littler near your eye, then as you are holding it down with your other hand use the eyeliner where you bottom eyelashes are, and just draw along that line, don't be rough with it. That's all that i can say or explain on here





    If you need anymore advice, you can join the website below and I will be more than helpful to answer your questions!I have a date! need tips on eyeliner!!!!!!!!?
    pencil or liquid?





    If you are using liquid and it is NOT water proof then just swoop it messily across your lid and use a wetted Q-tip to fix the line and make it nice and smooth





    If you are using liquid waterproof do the same technique but instead of wetting the Q-tip with water, cover it in lotion so the oils will take off the waterproof eyeliner





    If you are using a pencil be sure it is sharp and pull the corner of your eye slightly so your lid straightens out a bit. follow along the rim above the lashes and fix any mistakes

    I am going on my first date any tips or advice would be helpful?

    I was interviewed by an online dating website and by the press because of the online dating.





    I've given the same advice to people on that website.





    My advice is this:





    Don't build up the hype. Don't make a ';Real Life Meet'; a big event. Same as going on a date - don't make it a big event.





    Treat it as ';going out and having a laugh';.





    Why?





    Because if you hype it up, and put it all that effort, then expectations are very high on each side. And if you have expectations, then you risk disappointment. The higher the expectations, the bigger the risk of failing to satisfy those expectations.





    My attitude is, ';I don't date, I go out and meet a new friend.'; That way, I'm me, and she can be herself. I'm myself, and she can be herself. We have a laugh. We're not afraid to sit there in silence for a few seconds until something natural pops into our heads to say. We're not fighting to fill in those silent gaps with something clever to say to make ourselves look good.





    You're going out with a mate. Treat it like that. Because that has certain advantages too:





    If you don't click in that way, then you still have a great evening with a new friend, and you've made a new friendship.





    but if anything else does happen, it's natural and not forced.





    And of course, you're not nervous when meeting a mate. You're you, you're confident, you laugh when you feel like it, you joke when you feel like it.





    So, treat your date not as a date, but as a new friend you're going out. Be yourself. Have a bit to drink just to relax yourself - and have a laugh :)





    The only expectation: have fun and a laugh.





    Anything else is a bonus and a nice surprise if it happens :)I am going on my first date any tips or advice would be helpful?
    Just relax be yourself, have fun and don't do anything your not ready to do.I am going on my first date any tips or advice would be helpful?
    Hygiene is a must.
    be real don't try to act like your something other than you are have humor don't be too serious make eye contact don't go look at other people concentrate on who you are with and just have fun good luck
    Be confident, don't be like ';oh, hi, um hi';


    Be yourself, don't order a salad when you really crave a hamburger


    Have fun, if you make a mistake just laugh about it.


    A date is only a big deal as you make it, don't overreact and over-analyze and over-worry everything that is said, just deal with it.


    Try and keep the conversation flowing, if you're in the same classes or whatever talk about teachers, if you like sports or music or food or whatever you want to talk about.





    Just remember - don't say something that you aren't. Don't say ';Oh I love the color pink'; when you really hate it because then you're going to get presents in pink and people are going to be asking about pink when you really like red. You know?


    Good luck.
    don't be nervous.
    Try not to be too nervous. Talk about things you both like. Make fun of teachers. Ask what his goals are and seem positive. Be free.[ Don't eat too much.(just kidding)]
    kiss him
    Open questions get people talking and that's what you want in order to get a good handle on that person's personality. There is nothing worse when meeting someone for the first time then that awkward silence after greeting each other. Kick the silence into orbit. Here's a few conversation starters:





    What did you do last weekend?





    What do you do for fun?





    What are you most passionate about?





    Are you more of a city or mountain person?





    What kind of movies do you like?





    What kind of music do you like?





    Where are you from originally?





    What do you do for a living (company names should not be divulged).





    What have you learned from your past relationships?





    What are the most important things you're looking for in a person?





    What do you consider your best attributes?





    If you could be granted 3 wishes, what would they be?





    Which famous people would you invite to your perfect dinner party. And why?





    If you had to be someone else, who would you be and why?





    What's your favourite wine?





    What would be your ideal holiday destination - you can go and do whatever you want?





    What's the most reckless thing you've ever done?





    What's your most memorable moment?





    What song best sums you up and why?





    If you won the lottery how would you spend it?





    What three things would you take with you to a desert island?





    What time in history would you have liked to be born in and why?





    If you were to star in a movie, what kind of film would it be and who would be your co-star?





    So I hope this helps you good luck
    have a plan. don't make the other person make all of the decisions. ask them about their interest without judgements. enjoy momnets of silence. don't talk about past relationships, depression, or hurt. take risks... laugh, dance, be merry.
    Dont go out to eat.
    just be yourself. be honest and truthful. have some humor to make it interesting.
    dont get laid on first date that is a bad sign
    be yourself.
    Make it yours.
    undertand that you'll be nervous...dont talk to much...smile...ask questions - people LOVE talking about themselves.





    HAVE FUN
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