First gay date!! Any tips?

So I met this guy and I麓m about to call him for our date !! Any tips on conversation topics???


I had only one first date and IT SUCKED so bad that my confidence is quite low.


Should we go to a movie or is that too teenager? (we are both 23) ore maybe something like the park is better ??


ANY first date story is welcome


THANKSFirst gay date!! Any tips?
First off just relax, take some time before your date to keep yourself busy, and try not to get too worked up over making the date go ';perfectly';. I'm 20, gay, and the first date I went on was when I was 17. We went on a hike, because we too thought it was too cliche to go to the movies or out for dinner. It was a good first date, because walking definitely helped with the jitters. We talked about all the usual topics, what he had been up to, stuff we're both interested in, and other things we had in common. We got half way down the trail before he stopped, pushed me up against a tree, and kissed me. I was totally unprepared, but It turned out great! You'll do fine, trust me.First gay date!! Any tips?
There's nothing wrong with dinner and a movie, but if you're worried about seeming ';immature';, consider things like art galleries, museums, and the like. If you live in a metropolitan area, what about a nice stroll around your favorite part of the city with a finish at a restaurant you enjoy?


Also remember that he has interests that he might want to share/show to you, so be sure to bring that up as an option. It's about the 2 of you getting to know each other, not dominate from day one. Breathe deep, remember to relax and don't try to be anything but yourself. Good luck and have fun.
ooh it's exciting isn't it :)





If you know of a bar or cafe or somewhere similar that is welcoming to gay people, then that would be a good place to go. If you live near/in a big city there will probably be lots to choose from...but in other areas it can be hard.





Obviously any cafe or bar should be ok, but you want to be free to be your selves without the chance that someone might kick up a fuss...you know about the ';homos';.





There's nothing wrong with going to a movie...but as a first date it's nto a good choice as someone else pointed out, you wont really be able to talk much...and that sort of defeats the point. It could be good as a second or third date though....and drinks or something after.





I've rambled on with no real point.. sorry :)





I hope it goes well!!
Best dates are those which go with the flow. Meet for a drink in some really nice chilled back place, get to know him, listening is the key to a successful date, and if it goes well with the drinks then head on somewhere for dinner or the cinema. Just remember to smile and be yourself.
I'd say go out to eat or go to the park because you can't have conversation in a theatre. Just talk about your interests and get to know each other a little better because that's what the first date is all about. Relax, and have some fun.
i didnt know only teenagers went to the movies? but anyway just ask him what he wants to do, i bet itll get you some extra points if you do what he wants.
see a romantic movie!