Guys what are Ur secret tips and ideas for an unforgettable perfect date?

what to do


or say or make or prepare and organised


and specially what to avoid


i always sploied my dates and turn it into fight or debate instead of amusing it maybe i dont prepare for it as well as it should so what do u think makes ur date perfect and romantic





tell me some ideas (i have my ideas) but im not good enough in maintaining peace and romance for more than an hour





what do u propose to organise a super perfect date full of romance and without fighting LOLGuys what are Ur secret tips and ideas for an unforgettable perfect date?
First of all, if you want a date that a girl will like, maybe you should be asking the girls instead of the guys ;)





If it's a first date, to avoid stress and unnecessary awkwardness, pick an activity that won't put pressure on either one of you to come up with conversation. Try a movie or minigolf or a concert or something like that. There are plenty of fun things to do that will still give you a chance to get to know your date.





After you are a little more comfortable with each other, then you can try the dinner or something that involves more conversation.





I'm not sure what you are talking about with your dates to turn them into an argument, but until you know someone better you should definitely be avoiding controversial topics like politics and religion.





What I have found to be the most romantic part of the dates I've enjoyed is being with a date who seems to be genuinely interested in getting to know me. Ask your date questions about herself, and then ask follow-up questions. Ask her where she grew up, listen to her (don't interrupt or cut her off), then ask her what she liked best about growing up or something like that.





You can talk about yourself too, but don't overdue it. Using the previous example, you could share something interesting or funny about your childhood. Hopefully she's a decent conversationalist, and will also ask you questions about yourself as well.





Stay focused on the purpose of the date: getting to know each other so you can find out if you are compatible enough to keep going on dates. If you find yourself arguing, you are probably concentrating more on your own opinions and why you think they are better than getting to know your date and find out why she thinks the way she does.





As far as the romance goes, you should tailor the date to what the girl is interested in, and show her that you are anticipating her needs. If she likes the outdoors, take her on a picnic in a park. Find out what kinds of food she likes if you can, and bring that. To anticipate her needs, bring an extra blanket in case she gets cold.





And just to clarify, I don't think that all this preparation necessarily always needs to be done by the guy for the girl. Whoever asks the other person out on the date should be responsible for the preparation and making sure his/her date's needs are being met.