First Date: Flirting Tips?

Okay. I really like this guy, and we're going on our first date in a few days. We've hung out many times before, each time cuddling together, and have made it clear to one another that we like each other. He's pretty shy, but I'm pretty shy, too.


We're going to the movies, and I've already gotten some advice as to what to wear, what to talk about, how to act, whether to let him pay or not, and how to know when you're ready to kiss him. But now I'd really like to know some flirting tips.


I want to keep him interested in me. But I'm not a slut of any kind. What are some tips that could get his attention? (ex. biting your lip...)First Date: Flirting Tips?
Aww, congrats!





Don't worry about what to wear and how to act. You should focus on having fun. If you're trying too hard to impress this guy, it won't make for a very interesting date. Just be yourself--that is, after all, the person he likes!





As far as flirting goes...


~Make eye contact, and hold it for just a little longer than normal. Smile, then look down and bite your lip.


~If your movie is scary, hold hands! Either way, a bit of physical contact is good. Rest your head on his shoulder so he can be blown away by how amazing your hair smells. :) You could keep a hand on his arm, knee, or leg. Whatever's comfortable for you.


~When you hug him, hold it for a bit longer than you usually would. When you pull away, run your hands over his shoulders and down his arms, then look up and give him a little smile.





If you're chatting with him, keep it lively, and talk about things he's into as well. If you can relax, be yourself, and have fun, you'll definitely come off as interesting and fun to be around. The flirting is fine, but don't over do it. You want him to realize how much he likes you as a person, not just the shirt you're wearing and the way you look at him.





Browsing through websites for magazines like Seventeen or Cosmopolitan can give you some expert tips, some of which are more detailed that what I've told you.





Best of luck, I really hope things work out!First Date: Flirting Tips?
Oh, I'm so glad you had fun! Congrats!

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Seems like he already is interested, so just be yourself! Guys like different things. Things you've never thought about before he will like about you, like if you wrinkle your nose when you laugh.





Cuddling is definately flirting


pretend to be cold so he puts his arm around you


pretend to be scared '; ';


smile up at him


brush your hand against his
just compliments





like ';I really like your hair'; unless the dude is bald then probably dont say that or work it in as a joke :P





touch his arm maybe like just lightly almost as a light playful hit but look at him then pull your arm back.








smile, be yourself all that stuff...








joke around and be playful








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its been resolved kinda but i still would appretiate more answers.
make eye contact (mega important)


laugh at his jokes(yes, even if they arent funny)


dont moan (big turn off)


smile and look happy


enjoy yourself


be confident and comfyy (if you are comfy he prob wil be to)


hope this helps ;-)





also i would pay for your own ticket, he may insist he pays tho. :-)
Make eye contact, listen to what he says. Hold eye contact longer than is comfortable.


Look at his most attractive facial feature than in his eyes.
Put your arm around his shoulders. Lick your lips a lot if he can take a hint. Hold hands some.
touch his leg
brush against his arm a little but not too much and make eye contact.