Tuesday, January 19, 2010

I'm a guy having trouble getting a date! Need tips!?

I'm not ugly or anything. I can't figure out why girls won't go out with me anyone have any tips on how i can get a girl to like me. Please help me.I'm a guy having trouble getting a date! Need tips!?
if you're looking for a relationship: take the time to actually get to know a girl by just being her friend and letting her know she can trust you. A lot of times you end up being ';the best friend'; but in the end, every girl dreams of being with her best guy friend.





if you're looking for a short-term thing: be polite, be a gentleman and then ask her to go on a date with you. the worst she can say is no thank you. If this happens at least you tried and you wont have to wonder what could've happened IF... but if you take the risk, you could walk away with a girl's number and a date :)I'm a guy having trouble getting a date! Need tips!?
since being yourself is not working maybe you should change yourself...appearances wise and personality wise...watch some oceans 11 or something and watch the guys in the movie. their body language.
Ask girls out. They do not just fall into your lap.
maybe it has something to do with the way you approach them , and ask them for a date. i suggest you change your tactics. clean up, and look neat, and simile. good luck!
I use to be in the same mold as you. I thought that some guys were born with charm and grace and the others were punished. I was very shy and reserved until I was about 21 (coincidence that alcohol came into play don't you think), I realized its not about what you wear, drive, or even the money you make. Confidence... repeat after me, CONFIDENCE. Even if you don't have any act like you do, a girl doesn't want a man always asking...';Is everything ok'; ';Are you mad'; ';Did I do something wrong';. Any guy has a chance with any girl, have you ever seen a couple and you think to yourself, ';Why is she with him?'; All you have to do is be confident in who you are and grab her attention in that first two minutes, the rest you'll be telling your grand children one day. When you meat someone and they seem interested its not your job to get them to like you. Its your job not to screw it up. Good luck and happy hunting
approched them
You don't tell us much about yourself so it's hard to say what you are doing wrong exactly. Assuming you actually asking girls out and being rejected then there must be something wrong with your approach that is scaring them away. You could be coming off as threatening or desperate which are both good ways of being rejected. Try to become more confident and simplify your interactions with the ladies. Ask them random questions about anything and don't make it seem like you are interested in them, just that you are bored and like conversation to entertain yourself. If you get the feeling that one might be attracted to you then go ahead and ask her out.
talk to them!
jsut be your self it works when you find the right one
How old are you?

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