Dating Tips.?

Hi. My name's Joel, im 17 and i have gynecomastia (manboobs), and i'm scared to ask out women because of what they will think of me. I dont know what to do, its pretty noticible. I really need help, it has totally affected my self-esteem and my confidence is wayyy down. What can I do?Dating Tips.?
Everybody has something...thats life. Chances are if you do ask out a girl -she would be more worried about her thighs, or her flat chest, or her ghetto booty than your problems. Trust me...girls are MUCH more concerned about themselves then the guy.





And - make sure when you do think about who you want to ask out - that you aren't only considering the hottest most popular girls. Find a girl who is really cool - but maybe not the girl EVERY guy wants. Maybe she is cute and fun but isn't super skinny. It might help you feel less intimidated...and you would be giving some great girls a chance who may not get that many dates from other guys. I'm not saying you have to ask out a girl you don't think is cute or cool....but just make sure you aren't ruling out girls for the same reason you don't want to be ruled out. (:





And if all else fails - fake it 'til you make it - you miss 100% of the shots you don't take. What do you have to lose!? If you already assume they don't like you - then who cares if you ask them out and they say no - you already felt bad before that. But chances are just as likely they'll say yes...and won't even worry a second about the things you are worried about....and you may have a great time...any maybe fall in love....and how sweet is that!! (:Dating Tips.?
lose weight


lift weights
first of all, talk to your doctor, see what he/she can do for you. personally i'd also suggest working out a lot and eating healthy. you'll feel so much better about yourself %26amp; it will definetely raise your confidence! as for the dating part......wait for the girl that doesn't even care. you don't want to be with somebody that shallow anyway if all she cares about is your ';manboobs';. just be happy. girls EASILY notice confidence......so act confident %26amp; i gaurentee you'll attract so many more girls than you ever would have thought. good luck sweetie :)
if you are already pretty fit and you still have them, then you can see about having them removed/fixed. i heard about a story in People magazine where they are starting to do that for guys who have this problem and arent overweight.





if you are overweight, lose the weight first then see if its still there. and if it is, get the surgery.
You can talk to your doctor about getting pills that control your hormone levels. Also, work out a LOT. Get really really really buff, so if your whole body bulges, nobody will notice.
Well if i was a girl i wouldn't care about your manboobs, if they care that much about it.. then why even like them?.. it's their loss sweetie :]





oh, i didn't know you were asking HOW lol. you can take some diets, or do some excercises. I would probably do arm ones and crunches. Also, you can do a diet. Go to your doctor though to make sure your not putting your body to harm. While your their you can ask him for some pills, or think about surgery. If surgery isn't an option, trust me hun, i'm sure theres many girls out there that would go out with you ;]
yea so do I. Im 15 (in 1 week), and they did affect my self esteem but then i realized it doesn't really matter. I have had a few girlfriends, never the most popular girls but always cute nice girls. Just talk to them, some girls will be female dogs and turn u down before you can talk to them. But some will be pretty kool. Just talk and flirt with a girl and then ask them out, don't think about you man boobs, if u think about them you probably chicken out or get really embarrased and it will come out weird. Also if your not comfortable with them then you should work our more, run a little every day and do some sit ups and stuff. You don't have to go overboard running 5 miles a day from improvement. Also eat healthier, but you can still eat sweets, but in moderation





I hope that helped
well...u could just work on it....exercise...the thing is u need to be dedicated to whatever program the gym gives u and the diet plan....





u doing this for urself