My date says that over 90% of girls allow their guys in thru the back door & so shud I? Is this true &any tips?

So I started dating this guy and he immediately wanted to enter thru the back door the first time. When I refused he threw a tantrum insisting that girls today are doing it all the time and its strange for me to refuse. Are girls doing this all the time and if so any tips so I can join the club coz I don't want to lose this good looking hot guy...My date says that over 90% of girls allow their guys in thru the back door %26amp; so shud I? Is this true %26amp;any tips?
First, if you want to find someone to be happy with 1) They will respect your boundaries and you have having them


2)Looks aren't everything


3) Not all girls are into that and if you aren't really into it... don't do it!





This is something that you and your body have to be relaxed for as tension causes the muscles to tense.


If it is something that you are really interested in, use some lube and a butt..... plug (word censors) to help build yourself up. Never just let him shove it up there!


Lots of water based lube and a condom are essential!


Good luck...and make this decision for the right reason and not just because he is hot.


If he is willing to throw a tantrum over such a thing... not much of a man, imo.


...and remember, if all the girls are doing it and you aren't into it... then he won't have a hard time finding someone else to do it with! (Sarcasm)


Never let a guy take you past your limits unless it is constructive, and this certainly is not constructive!My date says that over 90% of girls allow their guys in thru the back door %26amp; so shud I? Is this true %26amp;any tips?
NO. Many men and women are not even into anal sex. Your man is lying to get you to do it. If he threw a tantrum because you wouldn't let him the FIRST time, then you should dump him and find someone better. You should consider the fact that if he's pushing you to have anal sex so soon that this guy might be bisexual and has had anal sex with other men before. On the other hand he's straight may only want sex from you, nothing more. You don't have to do anything you are not comfortable with. Its your body so you set the rules. Another hot looking guy will come along I guarantee it. Don't let this one railroad you into doing something, you may regret. If he loves you, he will respect your choice.
no, the % is not that high.


MOST girls don't do it.


he sounds like a COMPLETE jerk.


i recommend you dump him immediately.





but just FYI, i do recommend taking it up the back door! it can feel really good and it is fun to be naughty!





but if you do it too fast or when you are not relaxed and ready, it can hurt a lot and will turn you off from trying again. :(





tips:


try it by yourself first with your fingers and then a dildo


use lots of lube


go REALLY slow


you have to really relax ';back there';


it can take a while to figure out how to do that


wait until you are ready


wait for a guy you trust who deserves it!





also fun:


tell him most guys let girls strap on a dildo and give it to him up his butthole! see how well that plays! if he lets you, maybe you'll consider reciprocating.
I am more than certain many young girls are doing this. But, I also will tell you that lots of them don't want to be not cool if they don't. You are young and have so much time ahead of you. Don't let some guy force to do something you don't want to. Tell him to go find another.listen I was in this situation when I was your age it's not easy but nice looking guy or not. This guy is totally disrespecting you so why like him at all. How many other girls does he do this to! Do what is right for you don't make a quick decision like that you may regret it for the rest of your life.
Absolutely not. He is just trying to pressure you. If you don't want to do it, it doesn't matter if every woman in the world is doing it, because it is your body not theirs. So don't let this guy push you into doing something you don't want to do.





If he keeps pushing, tell him they say the men that enjoy entering thru the back door are really closet homo's.
HE IS LYING!!! There is no club for that unless both of you are males. Most guys don't even go for that because its painful. Most women don't get into that arena. It is very unsanitary. I don't care how hot he is. He really has no respect for you. Seems like he is trying to make you out to be slutty and you seem to be a really nice girl. Ditch him.
if he's pressuring you to do something you're uncomfortable with, i wouldn't worry about losing him. haha and that is definitely some bs statistic that he pulled out his a** to get you to give in.


if you really want to give it a try tho, talk to some people that have done it before, maybe even talk to your doctor and make sure you're comfortable with it (and with him) before you try it out.
don't join the clubb!





if your guy breaks with you because of this, then he's deff. not good for you!!





if you have doubts about this, then its a sign that you are not ready. Cuz if you were then you would not have to ask us if you should do it or not. when you ARE ready; you will not need us!





hope i helped!!





p.s. never do anything until you are completely 100% ready or else you might regret it!
If you feel comfortable with it, it's up to you. This guy doesn't have the right to force his penis in your asshole. If you do decide to allow him, use a lot of lubrication.





Also, just because he is good looking doesn't mean he is a good person. Keep that in mind...





...While he pounds your anus.
';dumbassgf'; is right. If you have to ask this Q then YOU are wrong. Obviously, you are uncomfortable so ditch the dude. You are probably way too pretty for that kind of guy. Anyway, whos to say he hasn't done it before- and to who. Be honest to yourself. Are you ready? It's not for definite that ya'll will remain. No matter how hard you try and how bad you want it....Noone cann actually regain their innocence. ';Listen to your heart.';
ew , if you dont want to have 'anal' then dont !


all i can say is those 90% of girls are just sluts


and he definitely made that crap up just to try to pressure you into doing it , dont forget there are plentyy of hot guys out there that arent jerks
He should respect you wishes that is number 1!!!!!! Entering through the back door.......feels different, its odd..and I'm guessing that NO 90% DO NOT like that. That is a very very high percentage. He is forcing you. Don't let him do that.
If you are with him just because of his looks, then you are with him for the wrong reason. The back door is always exit only. You do what you feel is the right thing and if you are up to the pain.
It looks like your date has used the oldest psychological trick in the book.





';But everyone does it.....';





So it is to make you feel inadequate.





Do what you want when you want and don't let a guy push you.





Peace.
hmm well nowadays people are doing all kinds of crazy things...but its really up to you. do u think its ok to do it? but i definitely think its not that common the first time haha. its not like hes taking one fer the team yadada?
you gonna loose him anyway, you weigh your relationship based on an all. my advise is use protection and go for it. you may want to use


a lube and do stretching exercise.
and if everybody is jumping off a cliff with no parachute, would you do that too? Be different and tell hiim to take a hike. Your not everybody, your you!
Don't' do it. Find someone who will find more tact when approaching you with those things. Don't let him pressure you in to something like that, wait until you're comfortable with it.
From what it seems this guy is a pervert, and his stupid percentage is wrong too. Just dump him, don't go for a guy's looks only.
Well if loosing a good looking, hot, guy is more important to you then your reputation for being an easy, slutty woman then go right ahead and let him in your back door..............
No that's not true at all. Do what you want. On the bright side, you can't get pregnant. Side note, it hurts like hell.
uh... if that's true, I'm in the 10%


I think he's just making that up hoping you'll believe him and feel obligated to do it.


...maybe you should date someone else. he sounds weird.
Don't join the club.


You'll miss the innocence when it's gone, especially when its when someone like him.
no, do not let even let him in your front door. dump him and have some dignity. don't fall into peer pressure. stay disease free.


God bless.
Tell him you'll compromise and let him put it in the window. Then show him your ear and say get at it big boy.
GOD!! just cause he says everyone is doing it and hes goodlooking does not mean you have to. If you lose him if you say no, youre better off without him!!!
He can't be too good for you if he throws tantrums. Is this all you're worried about? Even if it makes you look like a whore?
do whatever YOU feel comfterble doing...maybe the girls he knows were raised by trashy parents?
eww no! he is lying to you. gross. DO NOT JOIN THE CLUB!!


he is lying to youu!!!!
Oh HELL no!! If he wants the back door tell him to find a gay guy!!
He's lying to pressure you into giving him his way. Dump him, he's a pig.