Thursday, December 31, 2009

My friend has her first date tomorrow any tips for her?

so my friend has her first date tomorrow and is kinda nervous.So,she needs tips for her hair and wat to wear.She asked this question on here herself but it didn't work so I'm doing this for her


here's her pic:











http://s175.photobucket.com/albums/w139/鈥?/a>My friend has her first date tomorrow any tips for her?
If the guy asked her out, he must like how she looks and dresses on a daily basis. She should just be herself and not change anything.My friend has her first date tomorrow any tips for her?
ok. . . well, as for conversation, try to keep the topic off of yourself. this will lessen the chances of you embarrassing yourself if you're nervous. as for what to wear, you should know not to wear anything. . . hm. . . uh, well nothing that would give this guy the wrong impression about who you are. as for hair, maybe change it up a bit if he's seen you like that all the time but otherwise i'd leave it, it's really nice the way it is. it kinda depends on where you're going. if it's someplace nice, or if it's just like a movie or something. i always go with dressy casual; you can't go wrong.
well, da next time u ask a q wit a pick, make da pick like not on its side, so i dont have 2 sue u for having e break my neck while helping u. umm shes ok, but i was to busy screaming ewwww, because my neck cracked to notice, sry, just have her dress, nice, no make up, and have her be herself, if shes not, shell never get da right guy, oh, and if da guy is from a website, not someone uve met before, then do not have hger go, unless u like being ********
be yourself! Wear something comfortable, and not too revealing. it spoils any upcoming dates ;) it also depends where she is going. Movies = jeans and a cute blouse.


dinner = maybe some dark wash skinny jeans, a pretty top, and maybe some pretty heels.


anywhere else - basically the same as above.


stay away from revealing, see-through tops and super short skirts..you dont want to leave a bad impression now, do you? Wear your make-up natural, not too dark, use a pretty blush, and try to stay away from lip gloss..believe it or not, lip gloss does stick to people's mouths! (lol) try nivea natural chap stick instead :) good luck have fun and BE YOURSELF
sorry i didn't look at the pic but i would





1: have a shower, wash your hair with nice smelling shampoo, condit.


2: make ur hair and face and stuff look pretty (not too plastic though)


3: put on deo. then perfume. that smells nice or not too girly.


4: wear a comfortable pretty dress or wateva u like





GOOD LUCK! HAVE FUN!
Be herself (she's cute), unless it involves these things:





Talking about other guys


Answering your cell phone


Asking the waiter too many things


Making a fuss over footing the bill


Boasting about your family


Complaining about the place


Asking personal questions


Dragging him for shopping





She's a beauty, so she'll have no problem =] Wish her best of luck!
straiten her hair, put her in some skinny jeans and layer with tank tops, spend like a half hour on her make up use black eyeliner and dark purple eye shadow but not too much, nd some clear lip gloss, tell her to be flirty and not to laugh at her own jokes, make sure she doesnt let her guard down and if he wants let him kiss her(:





ps shes pretty(:
Tell her to just be herself. Shes a very pretty girl, I think she will do fine.


Have her maybe straighten her hair, and for her clothes, a cute pair of jeans (maybe the kind with the holes in them) and a cute sweatshirt (im thinking a%26amp;e, hollister).
Your friend shouldn't be too nervous. She should be herself, and wear something comfortable that she knows she looks good in, so she won't have to adjust her outfit all the time. I'm sure your friend will have a great time.
She's adorable-- Don't change anything!! (which I'm thinking is not the answer you wanted to hear.)


She should just be herself and have fun!!


xx
she looks cute the way she is, if someone asked her out its because they like her the way she is whatever style that may be so she should dress dressy casual but i think she should leave her hair down and go for a natural look
a red top with a black vest a red blet and a black skirt keep the hari like that its nice! wear a thick red braclet and maybe some red ball earings that would be so cute XD goo luck!
she should leave her hair like that and well i don't really know what she looks like so i can't give any advise on clothes and for make up glossy lip gloss will do fine
Leave hair down,curly! Wear a dress! Be normal!
be cool act normal init and dress ya normal init dont need 2 change for sum lad he likes u the way you are
Just tell her not to be nervous!
be herself =) and be comfortable! dress to impress too
Tell her to put out.
just act herself and dress little more casual and keep her hair normal
just be herself xD
awhh! she's pretty!


so here it goesss!:


1) Timing is important - Timing as in 'on time'. No matter what they say, there is no such thing as 'fashionably late'. For the first date, this can give the guy jitters and make him think that you've stood him up. For the later dates, having him wait for you in the living room for half an hour with either your roommate, your sister or, worse, your father is not something you want him to do - whether it be for the embarrassing stories or Dad's 'eyes of doom'.





2) Keep your head on straight - Yes, we all know dates are supposed to be fun, but knowing what's going on is important both for your own safety and for you love life. Is your date acting suspicious or just nervous? Maybe you'd want to end the date early or do something to calm him down. Is he taking notice of what you're wearing or just ogling? The choice to either wink at him or just stare knowingly is up to you. Is his attention on you or the girl next to you? You might wish to reward him with a smile or a slap. Situational awareness is not just for soldiers on the front but also for young women on the prowl.





3) Be nice - Have a positive attitude, find things that you like and tell him. Compliment him about his clothes, how he looks and how well the date is going. It puts him at ease and also makes him feel important. It also shows him that you're taking notice of him and you appreciate him. But, don't lie. Like I said, look at the bright side of things - the service of the restaurant may have been slow but the ambience was terrific. Try making it into a habit, you aren't lying - you're just being diplomatic!





4) Do not complain - This may be technically part of tip three, but it deserves a separate heading. This doesn't mean that you shouldn't tell him that something is wrong or something makes you uncomfortable. The way you phrase it and the tone you use is important here. 'Venting', like we do with our girl friends, is not going to go over well with him since he'll probably misinterpret it. Grin and bear it then tell him after the date in calm, reasoned tones your problem. Trust me, he'll understand and he'll try to make it up to you.





5) Enjoy the date - A date is a chance to get to know each other and to enjoy yourselves. Have fun during the date. Try not to be hyper-critical and just take things in stride. If you're not having fun, your date will notice and, trust me, he will get nervous which will probably start ruining the experience for both of you. Also, just let your guard down for a little while. Let him see the real you. He may or may not like it, but in the end he will appreciate the honesty of the act. Besides, if he doesn't like you for you, why should you keep on dating?





6) Afterwards, show interest - If you really like the guy, waiting for the call after a successful date is nerve-wracking. You know he's interested and you're definitely interested, you're just waiting for him to call you so you could arrange another date. Try giving him a day or two. He usually has to get his act together and work up the courage to call. If he doesn't call, he's probably still tongue-tied from being in your presence. Call him up to say hello. Talk about the date and how you had fun and give hints. No matter how dense he will pick up on it and he'll probably be asking you for another date!





7) Be consistent - For those who've crossed the 'First Date' Rubicon, try maintaining the impression you made on him on that first date. Men don't like surprises except, of course, if they plan them. This doesn't mean, however, that you'll just give him the first date you. Talk to each other, both on and off dates, to get to know each other more. What he got on the first date was a sneak peek, what he should get from your continued dating should be the entire reel.











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