Thursday, May 13, 2010

First date tommorow... any tips?

we are going to a carnival/festival with a couple of HER freinds. im nervous as hell, tell me info like what to wear, how to act, if i should kiss her (etc.)First date tommorow... any tips?
From http://spiritize.blogspot.com/2008/04/fl鈥?/a> - ';If a women's friend finds you attractive, pretend you don't notice. She'll love you for it.'; Read the other 24 tips ... some are quite funny, but true nevertheless.First date tommorow... any tips?
for getting ready:





- shower





- make sure you smell good, but be sure to not let the smell be too strong





- you're going to someplace fun, so don't dress super put-together, but definately don't be sloppy





on the date:





- give her a compliment, but not right when you see her, do it later on that night, preferably when you two have a moment alone. don't say something like, ';you look really nice';, instead, say something like, ';you look really cute with your hair like that';, that way, whenever she does her hair like that again, she'll think of you





- ask her about herself, and listen to what she has to say





- do not act flirty towards her friends, but don't ignore them either





- ask her if she wants some popcorn or a drink and if she says no, say, ';alright, but let me know if you change your mind'; and smile





- if you win something, give it to her, it's very cliche, but very sweet





- be confident, not shy, but never be cocky... that's a HUGE turn-off for the majority of people





at the end of the night:





- don't just say, ';I had a good time';, that's over-used and it won't have the same effect on her as something like, ';I loved spending time with you today'; would





- be sure to say goodnight to her friends too





- if you felt like the day went good, and the girl seemed interested, give her a kiss, but just on the cheek





- the reason she's probably bringing her friends along is because she's nervous too, and wants her friends there to feel more comfortable





- remember to just have fun, be yourself, and not over-think everything





good luck!
Wear something that you would feel comfortable wearing and that goes with your personality or style. You should always act as yourself -never try acting as something that you are not because we (girls) dont like that ( just act cool and treat her nice). Whether you should kiss her or not will depend on what happens tomorrow and how things go out (just wait for the right moment).
wear something that you feel comfortable in and that brings our your eyes...probably don't kiss on first date...but an arm around her would be sweet. act like a gentleman, tell her she looks nice, help her up if she needs it......have an intelligent convo about things that interest her. etc etc
aaawwww, just be yourself, wear something comfortable, try not to spill anything lol, control your nerves... and kiss her if she seems like she wants you to do it, you'll know the sings, if not, dont try to do it by force, that's the worse that could happen. Overall just be a gentleman =D





bizzoouu


';Giovi';

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