Thursday, May 13, 2010

Please give me some tips for blind dates?

The nice dog will be there to help your date, not for you to distract by feeding him under the table.Please give me some tips for blind dates?
If the date has been set up by friends then maybe suggest a few of you go out the first time. If it is through the internet or dating agency then arrange to meet somewhere where there will be other people around. Maybe arrange to go for a drink rather than a meal then if it doesn't go well you won't have to wait until the end of the meal to make your excuses and leave. Make your own way there and home again and don't reveal where you live just yet. NEVER go back to his place however charming or nice he may seem. Go somewhere where you will be able to chat and get to know each other rather than shouting over loud music or a film. Think of some interesting topics to chat about before you go. I had a blind date and it lasted for five years. The guy is still one of my best mates 20 years later so good luck. x x xPlease give me some tips for blind dates?
As in what - how to meet - what to wear - where to go? Meet somewhere open and let friends know where you are going - perhaps meet in a local pub - you should drive yourself so you can leave at any time you want. Wear something you are comfortable in - nothing too dressy but an outfit that makes it look like you've made an effort. Meet for a short time the first time - that way if you don't like each other you can quickly leave without appearing rude - if you like each other you can stay longer or arrange a second date. Be careful and enjoy!
dont go on one unless youre totally sure or go on it and dont expect too much as blind dates are usually a disaster waiting to happen
don't do them darling they are a waste of time in my opinion especially in the crap world we live in i have been on a few in the past you both feel aquad you sit in a pub or a canteen you both feel embarrassed don't do it darling just being honest with you darling
Look Hott!!! First off!!! Next just relax....And if it is a DUD you always have other people out there!!!!
Shove a fork in your eye- it makes the date more authentic
take a guide dog with you.
if your going on a blind date make sure you tell someone where your going you cant be to careful nowadays. arrange with a friend to have their mobile switched on so if the date is not going to well or your need an excuse to leave then you could make an excuse to go to the loo and while your in the loo ring your friend and ask them to ring you back in a couple of minutes then you can pretend to your date that you have to go because of whatever excuse you think of .
I'd recommend that you don't even bother with them. People will lie through there teeth and tell you everything you want to hear, then when you meet them, boom, a big surprise awaits you. If you must go through with it, don't spend a lot of time talking to the person before you decide to meet. If your not attracted to them, its not gonna work. Good luck.
Before you go and are at the arranging bit, make sure you tell your date you only have an hour for drink/coffee and have an appointment/arrangement after that. Keep to that hour whether you fancy them or not! If you don't like them then you are only wasting an hour and have a ready made excuse to go. If you do like them and they like you, it leaves them kinda wanting you in a big way. Go along with the attitude that you are just meeting a new person not the next Big Love. Be casual, polite, ask them lots of questions about themselves and show an interest in the replies. Always meet in a public place. Tell someone where you are going and who with and ask them to ring you 10 minutes into the date to check you are okay. Have a code for HELP and a code for 'I am madly in love'. That way if your date is a creep, you can be rescued. If not, then your friend can remind you that you only have an hour and not to blow it!
know as much about them as you can.





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If you don't like what you see you don't ever have to meet in person.
approach it with an open mind- have no expectations and you may be pleasantly surprised- if it dosent work out you met someone new , had some fun and if you dont want to you do not need to see them ever again!
don't try too hard.....be yourself and smile! =)
I Dunno want to meet me ???
a guide dog
heres my tip . dont go on them !
Lots of genuine smiles, if you like them an casual touch and most importantly...





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Good luck!
be yourself and if it doesnt work out, well theres plenty more fish in the sea
Try before you buy I say. However, it is true that people will promise the earth but deliver nothing when it comes to the crunch on blind dates. Remember that you have to decide if you like/fancy them or not, just be realistic with the whole thing. The last bd I went on just left me and sent me a one liner text to say ';ta rar';......needless to say, he got the rudest reply from me!

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