Sunday, May 9, 2010

Afraid of it being awkward and quiet on my date, any tips!?

I'm going on my first date ever on thurs., and i'm not too nervous....


except i'm afraid i'm not gonna have anything to say and it'll get really quiet and akward! im pretty sure i'm a boring person and i'll clam up (i'm kinda shy)!! ... ugh!


have you ever gotten nervous like this but then ended up having a great time with the person? thanks! tips are appreciated! =]


*yes i'm 15, yes this is my first date, go on and laugh if you must =P now help me out!*Afraid of it being awkward and quiet on my date, any tips!?
it's a lot easier than you think...but it just so happens that the more you think about what to say and the more you try to avoid having an awkward moment, the more likely you are to have one, the best advice is to not worry so much about it and think of several questions to ask if there is silence





for a high school guy, good questions might be: ';So, what kind of music do you like?'; or maybe ';What are you doing this summer?'; always a good one b/c most ppl have do interesting things in the summer





just one more tip: make subtle gestures to show you like him (moving slightly closer to him if sitting next to him, or ';accidently'; brushing your arm or leg against his) if he likes you, it'll give him butterflies and he'll love it





P.S. first date for me happened at age 19 so you got nothing to be ashamed ofAfraid of it being awkward and quiet on my date, any tips!?
you know? just be yourself and then if things get quiet just ask him some questions like what his fav sport is or whatever. guys luv dat or just talk about anything because i know i hate it when it gets quiet and that's why i talk so much... hehehe ok well no matter what this is going to be your first date and you are going to have the best time ever.... just trust me i guarantee it!!!! 鈾モ櫏鈾モ櫏
just dont give a ****, its your first so its not important (i mean it might, but just try to think its not)





good luck
be yourself, if he doesnt like you, then he's not worth it :)


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