Any tips for dating?

13, need help on asking a girl out. any advice?Any tips for dating?
How to Ask a Girl Out





When you would like to ask a girl out, just find the right time and place to ask. Sometimes you will just be hanging out, talking, when you feel you would like to make a date with her. If you do not really know her, but have seen her in school, or with other friends you know, then it might take a little more effort, but it certainly can be done.





Steps





1. Get to know her. Hang out with her friends and find out about the activities and hobbies she likes. The more you know about her interests, the more things you will have to talk about.





2. Approach the girl you like. Try to dress fairly decent, but don't overdo it. For example, if you're a T-shirt and jeans person, wear that. Do not show up with button-ups and ties, because you want her to like you for you, and you don't want to give her any false ideas. If you have a million stains and wrinkles don't worry. If she doesn't like you because of what you wear, she's not right for you.





3. Engage her in friendly conversation. Say ';Hi';, tell her your name and compliment her. You will find that conversation will flow a lot easier if you speak about a topic which both of you have some knowledge of and an interest in.





4. Gauge her interest. Take notice of eye contact, smiling, laughter, and enthusiasm in her responses. Learn to read women's body language.





5. Ease into your invitation. After you have been talking for awhile, though, say something like, ';Hey I'm going or doing whatever this weekend. How would you like to tag along? I promise it'll be more interesting than whatever you had planned.'; Say this with a small smile, teasingly. Do not use a cheesy pickup line! Think about how you want to steer the conversation around to asking her out.





* Ask her out for something specific if she's demonstrating interest. Maybe for a movie, or ice cream, or a hike in the park.





* Spend time with her and a group of other people (not a one-on-one date). This will make her feel more comfortable as it's not as intense as being out as a couple.





6. Keep your cool if she says no. Don't take it personally. Continue to make an effort to hang out with her and get to know her. Once she knows you better, she may grow to like you. Given enough time, she might even end up asking you out. At the same time, don't pressure or harass her, and take the hint if she's really not interested or if she's got her eyes on someone else.








Tips





* Be nice and treat her with respect. This is a must. If you can't treat a girl right, don't even bother trying.





* Become her friend. This is half the battle, and at the very worst at least you have one more friend than you had before.





* Be calm and confident. If you're sweating and stuttering, that girl will feel nervous about going out with you. Girls want guys that are confident, but not cocky.





* Some girls prefer to be called ';sexy'; or ';hot.'; Others prefer to be called ';lovely'; or ';beautiful.'; Make sure you don't use the wrong word. There are other good ones too like ';stunning,'; ';irresistible,'; ';really something,'; ';gorgeous,'; ';a hottie,'; etc. Try not to get stuck on just one.





* Practice talking to her. If you feel uncomfortable talking to her, you probably aren't ready to ask her out.





* Think of subjects to discuss on the date; stories about yourself, things you want to know about her, etc. in advance.





* Being relaxed and confident is the difference between a comfortable silence and an unbearable silence. It's natural to have breaks in the conversation. Don't sweat it.





* Last and certainly not least, have fun. No girl wants to be with a guy who is boring.








Warnings





* Above all, do it in person or over the phone. It is not romantic at all on the internet. But try to do it in person. Look into her eyes too, unless she looks away. Don't stare, but continue to look at her face. If you are really shy, you could try a handwritten note. Try to stick around after giving it to her though.





* Keep your hands to yourself! Trying to get physical with a girl right away just tells her that you consider her to be an object and not an actual person.





* Be persistent, but not too persistent. If she turns you down gently, then she's politely telling you she's not interested. If she flat out refuses, back away. You don't want any girl to think you're a stalker.





* If you have to ask her out through a friend, you will get a ';no'; by default. Girls do not enjoy hearing ';hey! I'm asking you out for (Name of guy). He doesn't like you enough to overcome his lack of confidence'; And they will hear this regardless of how tactful your friend is.








Things You'll Need





* Confidence


* Humor


* A nice personality


* Time to spend together


* Respect for her and yourself








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*Much Love* **God Bless**Any tips for dating?
im 12. when a guy just comes up to me and asks if he can ask me something when im with my friends, and then asks me out, i love it. if i want to go out with him, i do.
be cool wid it,don't hesitate,tell her you like her before you ask her out.


her reaction might say alot. =]
thats too young but maybe parents will allow her to come to the house....please ask them
I would suggest some type of group activity it then becomes easier to involve one additional person into whatever you have elected to do, movie, sporting event, etc. It also makes parents a bit more comfortable considering your age.





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