Wednesday, January 13, 2010

Help!!!First date tips?

Ok im 13 and im goin on my first date to the movies. What should i wear. What do i pay for. What to talk about and any other advice. ThanxHelp!!!First date tips?
just wear something comfortable, its the movies its more cuddling than talking and holding hands. and the guys supposed to oay for everything. bring money just in case, and just be yourselfHelp!!!First date tips?
Wear an outfit that you are comfortable with dress to impress but not to the point you will be conscious all the time about your outfit. Wear something that will emphasize your asset and be comfortable about it. If you are a girl, let the guy pay besides he is the one who invited you or if it is the other way around, 50-50 is also reasonable. Talk things that both of you shares the same interests and some intellectual situational questions that you are curious to know his opinion also. Just be yourself and everything's gonna be alright.
Awwe that's when I had my first date to the movies, one on one :]]


Just weat something casual, nothing fancy %26amp; if he doesn't offer to pay for your ticket then just bring enough for you..When you're in the movies try and talk a lot before the movie but then when it starts, don't talk or it might ruin the fun of the movie. But if he doesn't make any move whatsoever and you want it to be fun..slowly approach his hand with your hand and hold hands..(that's what I did on my first date, and we held hands for the rest of the movie and out to the car after) Good Luck :]]
OK, try to be casual with your clothes, but not to casual or dressy. My first date was at the movies too, on impulse I wanted to wear a skirt, but after I got there i was thankful i didnt as everyone else was in jeans. For me, I wore a pair of nice jeans, not holey or stained or anything with a nice tanktop with some lace on it. If you are going to hang out after the movie, try not to wear a jacket, or a just a thin one, because then he may give you his sweater :D Offer to pay, but he will insist so offer again, but in the end he's going to pay for you wether you like it or not (it usually works out that way) If you buy popcorn or snacks, you can try to pay, or atleast for your share. During the movie you don't have to talk much, but cuddling would be a plus for you :) After the movie talk about it a bit and see how you like and either wait outside for your ride and chat a bit and let things take their course from their. This is just my advice, don't forget, be yourself! he'll be thankful for it. sorry for the long answer haha
IF YOU ARE A GIRL....


(A) what you should wear?


1. BRUSH YOUR TEETH. bring breathmints.


2. something cute but not skanky.





(B) what do I pay for?


1. if he insists, say ';Aw, what a nice a date I have!'; In fact, shout it out.


examples:


guy goes to the counter: ';Tickets for two please.'; [he's paying]


guy goes to popcorn stand: ';medium popcorn please and 2 cokes';


at this point, you can let him pay, or you can say, ';Nah, s'ok Dick Cheney, I'll pay for the popcorn. You paid for the movie.';


either way is OK.





(C) What to talk about?


DUH - you talk about the movie!!


Btw, if you get a meal, Rule #15: movie FIRST, dinner SECOND.


that way you have something to talk about!


beforehand, talk about the weather, school, parents, future, sports, etc. whatever. ask questions





(D) MOST IMPORTANT THING EVER


The Closing!


so, your boy is done paying, give him a hug regardless, and if you really liked him, a peck on the cheek.





IF YOU ARE A BOY....


(A) what should I wear?


same advice - brush your teeth, comb your hair, and bring breath mints. wear something classy. like N*sync. or backstreet boys. or goth if you are a goth. your goal is to look older. a tie with a leather jacket is cute.





(B) what do I pay for?


follow same advice for girl. You *should* pay for the movies. if she wants to chip in for popcorn, let her. if not, you pay. it's a date, right?





(C) what to talk about.


whatever i said earlier.





(D) Closing


same as above. give her a hug at the end, and if you think she enjoyed it [the movies], a peck on the cheek. you're only 13.





what else if you're a guy....it was another important detail, but i forget.
Hmm. Well if your 13 then you would probably pay for the movie ticket..haha. But If your boyfriend is mature..then he would pay for everything. Wear what you would normally wear. Talk about things you have in common with the guy.. During the movie put your head on his shoulder or chest and he'll put his arm around you. haha..yeah that's pretty much it.
What to wear, Anything natural and normal , just normal stuff.w/e is fine.


Pay for , enough for yourself maybe extra.(If you are girl)


(If you are a boy)Then pay for you and her.lol


Try not to talk during the movie, some people find that annoying. Just maybe hold hands and stuff. Just keep quiet. Then after the movie, talk about the movie and how much fun you had .


Good Luck!!
Just be relaxed and don't worry about it. Don't dress completely crazy but dress classy and to impress. Its expected of guys to pay but he really doesn't have to so bring with you just in case. Watch a movie you both are going to like.
Well, you're a girl..if he asks to pay for you, say no, but if he insists, let him, and you don't need much to talk about b/c you'll be watching a movie.
DRESS SEXY, IF HE WANTS TO PAY 4 U SAY NO BUT IF HE INSIST THEN LET HIM IF NOT THEN PAY YOUR OWN TICKET N DON'T SAY ANYTHING JUST ENJOY THE MOVIE N GET CLOSE TO HIM AND THEN YOU'LL KNOW WHAT TO DO
is it Bailey as in girl or boy?

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