I'm 26 and met a girl the other night at a bar. She made the approach, and kept me in conversation for about 2 hours before I had to go meet/help a friend. We traded #s and I gave her a small peck on the way out. I am attractive, but she is a total bombshell. I called her 2 days later, and we have had one date. It was the best date I have ever been on, and we shared a very passionate kiss when the evening ended. It was the best kiss I have ever had.
Problems are- She is more well traveled, educated, paid and social than I am. In addition, we found that there is a 10 year age gap in between us, she is the older one. Regardless, there is an immense attraction, and we both thoroughly enough each others company.
My question, is this something I should pursue, or are we from two different worlds that could not work together?Need a Dating Tip- Is she into me?
.So how will you ever find out if it'll work if you don't try? Go for it and if it's meant to be it'll work out. If not then you will have had a good time and made some enjoyable memories. 10 years is not really that much of an age difference especially since women generally out live men anyway. Get in there and have some fun, Good Luck! Your Bud, BaddoggNeed a Dating Tip- Is she into me?
well i think it wouldn't work out because if she was raised like that and still is a Lil rich grill she would want that to be the same and never change that world of hers to the world that you live in and nomatter how much you both would try it still wouldnt work out maybe in the begining it will but then both of you would have arguments about it
NEVER let age be a factor in a relationship decision. All the other things you said about the differences between you two are simply you being self conscious about traditional roles in a relationship. If you are not uncomfortable with those differences and she is not.... then there is no problem.
Live life for now... enjoy the connection you made.
Go for it! Generally speaking, women usually outlive men, so you and she will probably have many years together if the relationship should go that far. The age difference should be fine.
you can if you want?!
so wait, she is 36??
Passionate kisses generally seem to indicate -at least in my experience- that the lady likes me at least a little bit.
Seriously. Go for it. If you like her, and she likes you, see what you can make out of it.
Once you get into adulthood, a ten year gap isn't so bad, especially if you two are as into each other as you are.
But consider this: If you're very serious about her (i.e, you think dating her could lead to something more), she'll be fifty when you're turning forty. She'll be eighty when you're turning seventy. I'm not saying don't go for it: it sounds like chemistry to me. Just be wary of the repercussions of dating someone who's ticket (should be) up before yours.
shes prolly ready to get maried!! if your down then go for it!
Just go slow as you would with any new relationship. Age doesn't necessarily matter, each situation is different. Enjoy and se what happens.
totally. go for it
by hanging out with her you could become more of a social butterfly and more traveled!
It almost sounds like she is married and her husband is away or she is rebounding with the ';attractive'; guy. Thats the type of things I encountered with older women when I was in the Air Force, many, many times.That just sounds like it to me but I could be wrong all together.
I say ';go for it';, but with your eyes wide open. Life is short and we all have to put ourselves out there at one time or another. Just take it slow and see where it goes. Nothing ventured, nothing gained.
Good Luck.
There you go, throwing problems in that are not there yet. Don't be dumb.. Unless a real sign of problems show up don't create one. Do you have a natural tendency to screw up a good thing? Your question is almost irritating. Some people just think way to D much and screw things up.
Well GO FOR IT!
1. Age shouldnt matter
2. dont live your life with ';what if';
Wow. I don't have much know-how, but it seems to me that, even though you guys hit it off, this won't work out in the long run. I don't think you should pursue it.
Just go for it, after all opposites attract
Go for it! She is not worried about it, so you shouldn't be either. There are no rules.
i think that relationships work well when you are both different people. it will give you more to talk about in the long run and also , when you ask each others opinion on things it will be a different point of view than what your friends tell you. if you get along well and you feel so atracted to her something must be right so why not give it a go. its better than not and never knowing weather she could have been the one.
Honey, Love does not know how to count. dont let age be a problem. If anything its a privilege. Keep going for it, maybe she can teach you a thing or two.
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