Wednesday, January 13, 2010

Nervous before first date.....tips?

I'm currently in college right now. This girl and I have been good friends since November, and I've suspected multiple times that she's wanted me to ask her out. At the time, I didn't have any interest.





Not to sound like a jerk.....but I'm one of those guys whose usually confident, laid back, and doesn't care what people think. I think that's one of the reasons my friend *might* be attracted to me......however, I've developed feelings for her and asked her out on a date. She accepted, but admitted this will be awkward as hell, considering we're in all of the same classes until graduation.





I know her pretty well. But for some reason, ever since I developed feelings for her my confidence around her has gone to nothing. I'm wondering how to overcome this? It has never been a problem before. What's going onNervous before first date.....tips?
When you love someone you start being afraid of them. Theres no magic way to get rid of it you just have to overcome your fears. It happened to me trust me with practice it will go away.Nervous before first date.....tips?
I think your problem is that you feel that you let your guard down by developing feelings for this girl.That's why you are not confident. Tell yourself this. I know this girl and I know she is good. If there is anyone i can trust intimately, it is her. You have to start somewhere and it might as well be her. You are still young and even if you do make mistakes there is still a lot of time left to do right. Have confidence and let yourself go, everything will slowly come to you.
First know that you going to mess up a little and that no matter what happens that you going to get though it and after you going to be alive. all you have to do is do kind thing, even if awkward. At the very least show that your trying. If you know this going into a data you will feel better and think that you'll have a good time. But don't try to be anyone but your self. You'll find whoever God wants you to and weather this is lady is her or not.
you try to potray your self as a one cool dude


one who think the world revolves around you


but when cupid hit your heart


you act as if your a lost puppy


that is love!!! go and try to be a friend with her


your mature enough to know how to please her


invite her to dinner or see a movie


that will be a good start


goodluck
Man that happened to me too...





All that matters is that


You know she likes you, and you got nothing to worry about...





It's not like she is going to beat you up if you make a mistake.





The biggest mistake to make is to worry your going make a mistake.

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