What should I do (dating tip)?

Alright, this is gonna seem weird since I'm not talking about a guy (you know a stereotypical question on this site) and I know what I should do, but...well...here goes.





I've been dating this girl for about two years now, with the exception of a one month break about six months ago due to something incredibly stupid. Well, we were talking the other night and I don't know how it came up, but she confessed that, during the one month break, she had sex with three guys (Not simultaneously, that was close to my first question(God, it's terrible how I'm trying to be sarcastic now, but it helps me cope)).





So, in four weeks, this girl had sex with three guys and it turns out that I know one of them. He's a friend of mind that comes over to my house every other day.





I know that, technically, it wasn't cheating, but it's bugging me and I'm not even sure why. Maybe because it took so long for her to tell me or maybe because subconsciously, or maybe consciously, I feel somewhat betrayed by both of them. God, I'm confused.





Please, any advice that you can give would be great.What should I do (dating tip)?
drop the guy friend.


and talk to your girlfriend about it and ask her if she would've done it if you two were officially dating. if she gets angry, or defensive, then stop. that means she thinks its OKAY to do that stuff when you two are dating.


tell her how it kind of bugs you and if she doesnt understand, i dont think shes worth your time.





anyway, do you really want to be dating a girl who you automatically break up with, will have sex with guys, right after? does this show she truly valued her relationship with you? do you want a girlfriend who other guys think of ';easy'; or somebody they can do it with?





answer these questions first, the decided what you should do.What should I do (dating tip)?
Sounds to me like she was trying to get back at you for whatever the incredibly stupid thing that happened. I think she took it too far when she did it with someone you know whom still comes around knowing what he did.





Dude, save yourself the heartache and trade them in for people who wont go behind your back.





As far as the sarcasm as a coping mechanism goes, tread carefully it becomes a nasty habit real fast (just looking out for you)
Dude thats F'd up your ';friend'; would do that to you. I guess any guy will take some tail anytime haha. 3 guys in 4 weeks though? C'mon Id be done with that for sure. I could understand one and maybe 2 but 3!? Hell no, get real, she doesnt care about you at all, or maybe shes just a nympho haha. Either way you should feel betrayed, cause thats what happened. You got kicked to the curb, and you should kick them to the curb next
Gross. I would say the same thing to you if you did the same thing.





You were broken up - you have no say in what she did. Either get over it or don't go out with her.





You know how high her chances are of an std? Find someone else.





Seriously.
im sure that its both: she took too long to tell you and you've been betrayed by them both.





i would advise you to either get over it or dump her. there is no middle ground and whatever you do its going to be tough.
If you know what you should do, why are you asking?
You were betrayed by both of them. Assuming, of course, that she knew he is your friend and he knew she was your girl.





First, what kind of a friend would sex the girl for whom he knows his friend was with?





A)One who doesn't care about your feelings, hence, isn't as good a friend as you thought.


B)One who heard you talk so badly about her when you broke up that he didn't think you would mind since you called her a hoe.





If B didn't happen, he is a complete jerk. AND why didn't he tell you when you got back together?





Second, what kind of girl who cares about you at all would sex THREE guys in one month?





A)One who is really just a hoe and you need to pass on to the next friend so all the homies get a ride.


B)Someone who cared so much about you that you flipped out calling her every name in the book, it completely broke her heart and she went for anyone who she thought might fill the void.





If B didn't happen you need to let her go. With that much disregard for your feelings she is likely to be a cheater, if not now, some day.





Remember how you felt you wasted a year and a half with her last time you broke up? You don't want to be saying you wasted more later.





Good luck!
It sucks that that happened but in all fairness you are right about its not cheating but you guys should have talked about things way before you got back together if only something like that really was going to bother you,but just be secure in what you have now and talk it out with both of them to make sure there is no feelings with each other.


Good luck with everything.


Oh and for the guys out there that are gonna trash the girl for having multiple partners ya its wrong but how many guys out there are having sex with 3 or more girls a week