Sunday, January 17, 2010

Blind date tips please?

I met this girl online and we are going on a date on monday. She is extremely beautiful and nice and I want to make sure the date goes perfectly well.





What are some of the tips you recommend?Should I buy her a gift ?should I order an exotic wine at the italian restaurant we are going to? should I avoid all possible physical contact including kissing?(because its a first date etc...)Should I put my arm around her when we go to the movies later...?should I try not to joke too much or try to hard to avoid being called a pushover etc...? What should I talk about?Can I ask her if I can hold her hand when we walk out of the restaurant...?


Its been a while since Iv'e been on a date so I am kind of nervous.


Let me know your opinions guys!


Best answer wins 10 points!!Blind date tips please?
Everything you mention. sound great guy, but never flash to much on first date get to know the person, understand do and don't her wishes.





No kissing on first date that will scar your date. that's too much self-int rest. Bring flowers not a gift only because, you don't know her yet. Avoid touching or to close just keep it sample as possible. Try thatBlind date tips please?
Look. Bring ONE rose to the date, and when you first greet her, say hi and all, then hand it over to her. Take her to dinner, ask her if she likes a specific type of wine. After the date, HOLD HANDS with her to the movie. After the movie, you can hold her on the shoulder or the hips. Then drive her back to her house, and ask her if she's gonna invite you in :)
Well if you met her online it probably matched you up to what you have in common.





Best advice anyone can give you is be yourself. Don't worry so much because if you used the dating service right you souldent have anything to hide. I'd go ask her what she wants to do and if she says whatever or somthing like that id take her to the movies.





Good Luck :)
buy flower


yes to the wine but see if she liikes u first


avoid contact but not if she gets mad


dont joke too much


talk about her a lot


dont ask to hold her hand


dont put ur arm around her at movies i hate it when ppl talk about that cause everyone does it. seems kind of stupid.


and im a girl whos icon got messed up and now i cant change it
be yourself. have a good time and dont think too much into it. let it flow. don't try too hard. it'll be great. good luck to ya.
I would just be cool.


No gifts or anything.


the wine may be nice,


But if you get her a gift.


She may feel bad,


and you can be coming on wayy to strong!
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WATCH OUT FOR HER CANE
wear neon colors


maybe then she can see u








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*Bring her a single red rose and hand it to her as she arives and tell her she looks beautiful.





*Ask her if she would like to order wine or something, idk fi she drinks or not, and you dont wanna seem to be trying TOO hard.





*Most of your questions are things you can be talking about with her. Ask her what she looks for ina relationship, and at at was pace she iscomfortable keeping things, and let her know your feelings as well. She is peobably wondering a lot fo the same things, and so getting everything out in the open is best for you both.





*Talk to her about what she does for a living, what she does for fun, blahblahblah and Im sure she'll be like ';what about you';. if it gets quiet just ask her whats on her mind.





*Dont be too touchy feely, even if she is okay with it. Holding hands is okay, and hugs are WAY better than a freakin handshake. It is a date. As for the kiss? Judge by how the date goes. Some girls may like a kiss goodnight.
well id take her someplace nice to eat, dont over do it %26amp; dont try to hard either, be yourself..if you like to joke, thats great. some women, like myself love a funny guy that can make us laugh. that helps break the ice too.


as far as the holding hands and kissing, thats gonna all depend on how you think the date is going. if you two really hit it off anything can happen.





and let me give you another major tip... movies on a first date...not goood. how are you suppose to really get to know a women if your at the movies? that means NO TALKINGGGG


if you really hit it off and you see that she is into you also.


Talking is something your going to want to do.. id go someplace with live music where u can still mingle yet have entertainment of some sort. i dont know what city you live in but find something Different to do besides the movie, seriously.





one thing i learned from dating guys whom i ended up not liking is... at least i got a movie out of it.


and also... thank god he took me hear cuz i didnt want to talk 2 him anyways.





so good luck and hope its a match made heaven.
Dress casually yet nicely since your going to a nice place to eat, but a casual movie afterwards. And don't worry too much. You're asking lots of questions. You don't want to seem mechanic and almost like your acting. Open doors for her. And Ask about him.


Ask about her family and friends.


Ask about what he or she does for a living.


Compliment your date.


Ask about his or her interests and hobbies.


Discuss music, film, food, and art.


Talk about yourself (but not the entire time!)


Show an interest in what he or she is saying.


Stimulate the conversation with open-ended questions.








But you really shouldn't...





Discuss past relationships


Talk in depth about topics that don't interest the other person.


Speak badly about others.


Say anything stupid, mean, or inconsiderate.


Monopolize the conversation.


Cross-examine your date.











Relax and don't stare at other people. Look at her and keep contact. If it goes well, mention that you'l like to keep seeing her.





:-)








Be yourself. Don't exaggerate about yourself or blab on and on.

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