First Date Tips, can you help me please?

I'm 22 lol





I'm taking this girl out to a cafe tonight, a few days she suggested this one Italian restaurant she always wanted to check out however I told her few days ago that we should go to a local cafe for some coffee/even food to get to know each other a little better, and she agreed with it, i was kinda surprised she brought up the italian place.





1, since i'm really in the get to know state, can i simply order coffee/drink tonight or do i have to order food? its vegetarian and i told her this over the phone when i picked it over the italian place, told her it sounds real good too and if she would mind that we do her place next week, she was cool w/it





2, what do i wear? the cafe seems like a pretty casual place so i was thinkin of wearin a nice shirt, with some nice jeans and nice pair of shoes, would this be cool? oh and im picking her up. i pay for the drinks/meal too right?





this is my 1st date ever. thank you.First Date Tips, can you help me please?
First of all, good luck!





You don't want to come across as being too worrisome or worried about money on the date, so I would go with the flow and order food/drinks. Generally, yes, the male pays for dinner and outings the first few times. Its chivalrous. I would pay even if she offers to pay.





I'm not sure why you are suprised that she suggested a resteraunt, I think that is pretty standard first date stuff.First Date Tips, can you help me please?
I couldnt get past the part she wanted to go one place and you talked her into the cafe.
wear jeans, a nice shirt and nice shoes. it doesnt seem like u really wanna get food cuz its only the first date so maybe just coffee. definately pay for the drinks cuz if you dont, its not a date. good luck
since u r just going to a cafe' u should wear a nice polo shirt and nice blue jeans and tuck ur shirt in if the pants go below ur belly button and wear a brown belt and brown loafers!good luck on the date :D dnt frgt 2 smile!
k u pay for the drinks and meals





and order coffee and like a little apptizer ya 2 share together and that would be a great outfit
show her you can lick your eyebrows and can stand outside of the mens room when you pee.
If you are nervous about weather to order food or not, let her order first. If she orders coffee, then you order just coffee. I hate going out on dates where the guy doesn't order food and watches me eat. It makes me uncomfortable because they are asking you questions while you have a mouth full of food. If she tells you to order first, just say you don't know what you want yet. Hold off on ordering till she goes.


As far as what to wear, I think wearing something nice but casual would be ok. Or else scope the place out before you take her there. See what everyone else is wearing.


As far as who pays, if you asked her out, she may be expecting you to pay for her also.


Even if you are nervous, look her in the eye when you are talking to her. No matter how shy you may get. If you aren't looking at her, she will think you are bored or checking out someone else while you are there.


If you aren't sure if she wants you to give her a good night kiss or not, just give her a hug good night. You can give a bad kiss but not a bad hug.
first of all, you are taking her out and you should have taken her some place that she may have enjoyed a little bit more but oh well. About the food, ask her what she feels like, a drink or whatever and just dress casually and try to be calm and be yourself