So, a lady-friend who I really like, and I, are going out on a second date. We are going to a very nice but low-key restaurant for some dinner and then probably a coffee at a local cafe after.
I am still looking for some tips from the other side of things. What are some things I should avoid, and what are maybe some things that I can do to make it extra special for her.
I'd love some input! Thanks!Looking For Some Second Date Tips.?
as a lady myself i would say that the best thing to do is be who you are..ladies like a guy who isnt afraid to show his true colors...but bc you are out then i say dont do too much but do wat you would do.
dont order for her
listen to her
try to have an understanding
if shes cold cover her with your jacket
but watever you do dont flatter her too much bc she might have had a relationship in the pass that started off with lots of flatter and ended in tears.Looking For Some Second Date Tips.?
Well, I don't know if YOU know this but women like to talk!! So thinking up some questions for her would be a good start!! DO NOT talk about yourself, going on and on and onandonandon.......... UNLESS she asks you a direct question!! I'm not saying ';don't talk'; I'm just saying that it makes a woman feel comfortable if you ask her about herself!! What are her likes, her favorite flower, music, hobbies, etc.......... Do NOT ask her what her favorite position is in bed, how many boyfriends she's had, her credit score.............. etc. LOL! I personally always thought simpler was better as well! It's more romantic when a guy brings a single rose or carnation rather than a bunch!! To many flowers will make her feel pressured. One lets her know that you like her and you want to make her feel comfortable. Show her something special about yourself, like a magic trick, or a drawing you did (if your an artist) but DO NOT bust out a guitar and start playing a bad rendition of AC/DC or Kiss!! Second dates should be special, but kept simple as well.............. At least that's my opinion!!
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