im going on a date tomorrow with a guy i met a few weeks ago. im really really nervous because i dont know much about him, but i want to give it a chance and see how it goes. i havent been on a date in ages so any tips would be really helpful! thanks xFirst date tips??
nerves are inevitable. just enjoy it and be yourself, that's the most important thing.
ask him questions about his interests or his beliefs in things and that way you can find some level/even ground in terms of how similar you both are.
ask him about his fave music, that's always a good one.
smile at him and twiddle your hair at times, that's also quite a good thing to do, it will definately grab his attention, and it signals flirtatious body language, suggesting you like him, although not telling him so explicitly.
hope this helps
don't be nervous, you'll be fine.First date tips??
Be yourself, smile when you feel like it, but don't overdo the smiling and especially don't overdo the laughing. Wear a color that makes you look hot. Look feminine not slutty, that way you won't be giving him mixed signals. Drink alcohol slowly, so you'll feel smart and relaxed. Don't open up too much, and don't talk too much (unless that's really your personality). Don't overdo the perfume, keep it light but if it's a long date, take the perfume with you and dab some more on in 3 hours. Keep lip gloss with you, it's better if the lipstick or gloss has a good scent-guys love that. Keep up with current events, that way there is always something to talk about and discuss. Good luck-and most important: HAVE FUN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Don't worry! Don't feel like you have to entertain him. If he isn't talking, he's probably thinking about you and how pretty you look or how great you smell. If you make a opliment about how nice the weather is, he will feel like he was responsible for it. If you say you were looking forward to this evening or to seeing him, or something simple like that, he wiill feel good. Just keep it simple. Laugh at his jokes and don't do anything in extremes. Talk about him, not you. If he asks about a former boyfriend or husband, jut say ';It didn't work out'; and leave it at that. Have a great time!
Wear the biggest smile and act really interested in him. Don't talk about other people and absolutely don't take out your cell phone and start texting, it sends the signal ';I don't want to be here.'; Think of some conversation starters before your date. Don't be nervous! You have nothing to worry about, he's probably a little nervous too so just be relaxed. Have fun(:
Be yourself above all else. Go in with an open mind and see what happens.
Smile; this is a chance to get to know him. Without turning into an interrogation, ask him about himself.
Keep the first date short and sweet; nothing heavy...light, fun, and not some long, drawn out affair.
If you two hit it off...fantastic! Have a second date and go from there.
The whole point of a first date- hopefully a second date.
I wish you would have given me more details. But, be yourself. Wear a flowy summer dress if you have one in your closet and if the weather permits. Don't forget to wear a nice scent and some lip gloss. Don't reveal too much about yourself on the date. Meaning no ';my ex broke my heart'; type of things. Keep it light and fun. Talk about your interests. Also, laughter is a great ice breaker. Have fun :)
ok the first date is always important, so what you two should do is like go see a movie, or go out for dinner, and the #1 rule is dont leave your cell phone on, big no no, and dont do anything really big, do just enough to show him how you really feel about him :)
Woah!
You don't know too much about him?
You might not want to go alone. Or have something setup, where if he's a jerk or something, you can get a friend to pick you up.
Sometimes going in group dates are good too. Dates don't always have to be alone. one x one.
where are you going on the date. Be nice give him your attention don't talk about religion, politics, or your past relationships. Laugh at his jokes and have the hand closest to him open and available at all times.
Don't expect anything... just be yourself and have fun... when you expect something and it doesnt work out you'll feel disappointed but if you dont expect anything... wheter it works out or not you've had a good time and you can move on
Don't fuss about how you look
Wear something you know you love (not something new)
Eat well, stay hydrated that day
Try breathing deeply to relax
don't take out your cell phone, he'll probably feel like your not interested. try to be casual and confident.
Just go with the flow.
Remember to be yourself and just relax.
You'll know if you like him or not so don't sweat it.
Cheers!
be your self, that's the way he likes you so don't put in too much effort to look good =]
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gd luck!!!
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dont act like your nervous.. try to be yourself! i know its hard but you gotta try.. dont lie whatever you do just dont lie..
be yourself
relax
dont be to expensive (like if ur goin out 4 dinner or to the movies)
and calm down he's just another boy and think of him as a friend to calm ur self down.
Just try and go with the flow. Be yourself. Show an interest in his job, family, musical and film tastes. Tell him a bit about yourself - but not too much!! All will be well.
be yourself and flirt alittle........but not to much, he may think your a player or something
dont think about it...it'll turn out fine...he must have planed everything
have few drinks to steady nerves but DO NOT get drunk..
don't talk bout exes...be your self....go some where u can talk like a quiet pub.....and take mints....
make sure you smile and show confidence, show interest in what he's saying by relating to him. x
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