okay so I am going on my first date with this really cute girl. I really don't wanna screw things up, any do's and don'ts, any tips, anything will help. Should I dress up or keep things casual, what should i talk about, and how should i make sure next date happens and happens soon enough, Thanks for any help!First Date Tips!?
Dress nice but not too nice- you don't want to look better than her. (nice shirt w/ jeans and nice shoes should do the trick.)
Compliment her on something unique. (not you look pretty.) (something a guy would not normally notice--perfume, a piece of jewlery...)
Don't tell her she's ';hot.'; (not a compliment.)
Don't attempt to kiss her. At the end of the night give her a kiss on the cheeck. Leave it at that. (but don't reject her if she goes for a kiss.)
(be a gentleman.)
Take her a flower. (just one.) (like a tulip or a rose or a daisy depending on what type of girl she is...)
OPEN THE CAR DOOR (all doors) FOR HER THE WHOLE NIGHT!
Don't be nervous!!! BE YOU!!!First Date Tips!?
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It is hard to answer this questions when we don't know how old you are! Here are my suggestions:
Before the date: Find out what she likes- art museums? baseball games? a good chick-flick? theatre in the park? Once you find out, plan something that you know she will like- even if it is out of your comfort zone. Do something fun and casual. If you take her to a movie- plan a lunch or coffee around it so you can talk.
During: Don't try too hard. Listen to what she has to say. Ask her questions about herself, but don't get too personal on the first date. Open her doors, and act like a gentleman. Smile and be charming.
At the end: If you feel you have had a great date, go in for a little kiss. Don't let it go beyond there! Ask her if she would like to go out again (next weekend?) or can you call her?
The most important thing- be yourself. If you can't be yourself, then the relationship will never work.
Good luck!
aww that's ute =)
Keep it casual. You're conversation should be about getting to know her. (what she likes to do, what music does she listen to etc...) find out what she has in common with you. To ask her on another date play it smooth. If you're too eager, you'll make it too easy for her. (girls like a challenge) To slow and she'll get mixed signals. I would say be like '; I really enjoyed being with you. maybe we can go on another date? say next friday?(change the day) But before you say this make sure she's enjoying herself. Meaning no quiet moments. But if she was able to say yes in going on the first date. then I don't think you have anything to worry about. hope this all helps. Sorry for babbling too much.
Just act natural and be yourself, don't put so much pressure on it. Dress nice, but overly. Jeans, nice shirt. Talk about who you are, what you do, what you like, hobbies, interest. Things that will give let her know who you are. I wouldn't focus on the next date till you get to the first one. If you're pleased by the end of the date tell her you'd like to see her again and you had a great time. Call her later and set something up for a future date.
Keep it casual. Nice but casual.
Make eye contact
Read up on some news and events to have some stuff to talk about
SPEAK CLEARLY!
Sitting up straight shows confidence and allows you to project your voice better. Plus your chest pops out more lol.
Don't look mad, sad, or really confused.
Don't talk a lot. Get to know her more.
DON'T BRING UP PAST RELATIONSHIPS!
If you want a second date, see if you are having any festivals, concerts, or something like that in your city and ask her if she would like to tag along.
be yourself! kinda corny but i rather go out with a weirdo then a phony
Well hun, just be yourself, i mean why do you think she wanted to go on a date with you in the first place? Just act like your normally would except, you should bring her a little something special, something cute. Just an idea, hope that helps!
I like it when my date ends it with a kiss so if you don't think you are ready or don't want to then just give her a hug. If she really wants a kiss she will kiss you. If you are going to the movies I would dress casual but if you are going out to dinner I would dress up.
Dress casually. Resist ALL temptations to look at other women. Talk about whether or not you are going to college, hobbies, favorite movies or tv shows, etc. DO NOT talk about ex boyfriends/girlfriends, sex, how many kids you want or anything along those lines! Good luck!
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