Friday, January 15, 2010

Girls: First date tips please!!?

I'm one of the few ';good guys'; left out there and i have a really close friend that i like and im wondering where a good place might be to go or a good thing to do on a first date and a good way to ask her, or if nothing else describe your perfect date please...





thank you soo muchGirls: First date tips please!!?
If you really like her, don't take her out for a movie and dinner, it is what everyone does, but find something that she loves to do, like say she loves the stars, well take her out for a picnic at night or to the planetarium where it is just you and her, and you can buy her a star, I know it sounds weird but totally romantic.


Hope this helps and good luck,Girls: First date tips please!!?
My Boyfriend is one of the rare insanely cute good guys left %26lt;3








Our first kiss story %26lt;333











Im a raver, and aaalways partying, but I also love to sit back and conversate about something important! Or going hiking %26lt;3





So we went to Red Rock Canyon, and I was impressed by how he wanted to go off the trails and on our own, so thats exactly what we did.








It was night time by the time we finally stopped, he came up behind me and hugged me close and told me to look up! So thats what i did and WOW!





The stars were soooooo bright and you could actually see them!





He brought me there to show me there stars, because im always talkin about how you cant see any here in vegas, it was so adorable and we shared our first kiss in our own secret spot %26lt;321
Well one of my friends had a really cute experience with how a guy asked her out. It's corny but cute. So he took time to drink one of those sobe drinks that are in a glass bottle, and wrote her note asking if she would go out with him. He knew they were going to be taking a a walk later by the river so he placed it somewhere they would be walking by. When they went for a walk down by the river and she noticed it right away and was like ';hey do you think that's a message in a bottle';. And so he picked it up for her took out the note and handed it to her to read. It was a bit corny, but very sweet at the same time.





As to where to go on a first date I would say to a movie but let her pick which one and to a nice restaurant like Olive Garden or something, and of course you should pay. Hope that helped =)
I know I'm a guy, but I'm gonna answer anyway :)





I have not been on a date yet, but that means I have like amazing ideas, cuz they're all kept inside and I think it over A LOT. Ok, so for my first date I want to have her over for dinner and watch a movie at my house, so out of that you both get time with each other, homemade dinner, and a movie. I think that's a great idea... Hopefully I'll be able to use it soon... :)
if you're going to ask her, ask her in person. most girls i know will at least give a guy a chance if they have the guts to ask them out in person instead of a text, a call, or internet. plus, it's a lot harder to tell a guy no face to face cause then we gotta see their face go all sad.





my idea of a perfect first date is some place fun. you already know the girl so doing something romantic where all you do is ask questions back and forth to get to know eachother is pointless. instead, it's more likely to be awkward so do something fun that will make it more natural. bowling is always good, and minigolf if it's not cold. could go see a good action movie, that way you're close but not forced to talk and make conversation. the movie bedtime stories is a decent first date movie. not too mushy so it's not awkward, but she'll probably like it and the guy won't be sitting there totally bored the whole time. has adam sandler in it.





just make sure that when the date is done, you make a comment like ';i had fun we should do this again sometime'; so she can give you a positive yeah, or a disguised negative like yeah, maybe. it's harder to lead into a second date if you don't prep it like that at the end of the first one.
this remind me of my past lol, what you need to do is make the night long so you can spend the first half of the date as friend and do somthing that both of you really like have so much fun so she realises how much fun you two have together then pop the question after that she will be your girl and finish off with somthing romantic hopefully you might get lucky like i did ( but its not all about that) and i dint give you any ideas because a perfect date is when you use you creativity


- good luck
A great first date would be - somewhere where things are happening. Like a fete, or a festival, a pub with an event, so that it is clearly casual, has a great atmosphere, and there are things happening so there will be things to talk about regardless.





And pay for everything. If you want to. Only saying. The wonderful relationships ive been in, he's always paid, no matter what my insistance, cause he really liked me. My husband pays for everything now. I have to be tricky to pay for things. But I think it's the chivalry in men when they meet a girl they truely like, that ignites in them.
A good place to take her to is a nice restaurant. Ask her what her favorite place to eat is. I always dream of my perfect date to be us going out to eat at this nice restaurant, go to the movies and then go for a walk at night in the park. If she won't like it, then i don't know what will. Hope that helps! :)
OK well my first date was to the mall, we like went into one of the resturaunts there and had dinner...i think it was like Ruby Tuesdays..and then we went to a movie. It was really nice I had fun. And if you are really confident you can go straight up to her and ask her out or you can call her or IM her. Ive been asked out all three ways so either way is good i guess. Good luck and have fun.
I think you should try something simple first like take her out to dinner. Or you could do something that you like to do and maybe that would interests her. I definitely think that taking her out to dinner would be nice that way you can actually sit down and have a easy conversation.
always be yourself and dont do anything you know you shouldnt do.


dont pressure the girl into doing anything she doesnt want to do.


whatever you do have a good time and always make her feel good by complimenting her.


if she says anything like ';im so fat'; you should say no your not and make her feel good about herself. get her a nice present, doesnt need to be expensive so she knows you care and suck up to her.
since your already friends then you should know what her favorite kind of food is, take her to a restaurant that severs what her fav food is. Get her a single rose in her favorite, or flower that you know she likes. Then take her to a film you know she has been wanting to see. If you paid enough attention to what her dislike and likes are you should have no problem woo-ing her.
well on my first date date i went to a concert with a guy lol we were both 14 and his parents had to drive us and pick us up...it was kinda awkward but really fun so maybe find out her fav band and stick a ticket to the concert in like her back pack or something cute like that
This is going to sound really cheesy but we went to the carnival. It was a simple date. He bought me jewlrey and we hung out all night. Its a very innocent date thats very sweet and fun. Its a perfect way to have a good time and not to rush things.


Movies=making out


Mall=spending lots of money


Picnic=sounds like fun


Skating ring=AWESOME
I know I'm not a girl but...





Definately go out and grab a cup of coffee/smoothie/etc. and walk around a park/town/etc.





It's casual yet very indulging because you'll be talking and getting to know each other.





Just ask her if she'd like to join you to get some coffee/etc.





Good luck!
i love a comedy movie as a first date but at the end just say this was fun we shoudl do this again sometime and give her a kiss on the cheek if you can but dont leave it too awkward at the end...god i know all this and im only 13 lol i watch ALOT of friends
Hang out together and talk like at a quiet restaurant. Don't have sex! Try and become friends first. Ask her questions about herself and find out what you have in common. If your uncomforable together then you not ment to be but if you talk until 5 in the morning, yeah!
An activity that is fun to do and then dinner or lunch that way you two will have something to talk about during dinner or lunch.





Pick an activity like bowling, a good movie, skating, e.t.c, something you will enjoy doing that's respectable.
Well, don't try to win her over with money. That's not a good route to take.





Make something for her, or take her stargazing, or even play board games at home. They are so fun, and you can learn a lot about each other!
A good place would be ur local library, ask her over txt or call her cell, i love that, and at the library just talk about hw that u have or stuff that stinks at school like gym.
i like go out to eat at a food place and talk, go for a walk depends where ur at and what the climate is cuz if its cold thats prob. not what u want to do.....romatic guys are nice too but if you are too fast forget it we dont need anymore of those guys. trust me
Maybe something simple like dinner and a movie.





My perfect date would be going out for a nice dinner, going downtown for a carriage ride, and lots of sex.
The movies is a good place to go, but doesn't really give you the opportunity to talk to one another so make sure you do something else before or after (e.g. dinner). Keep it casual and just be yourself :).
Movies has to be the easiest. First dates are akward and nerve racking, and at movies you aren't looking at each other, anylizing moves. Movies doesn't involve talking, so it'll be less scary.
do something original.


something really fun that isnt a normal date.


she'll have a blast.
go 2 the mall


and buy her something that she likes


let her drag u around to all of the stores she likes


and maybe buy her ice cream or something afterward


gud luk!





or go ice skating!!!!!!!


that would be more fun!
Dinner and movie. Easy and not very expensive. Just call her up and ask her if she would like to go. If shes busy, just say maybe another time.
Good guy or not you better find out if she likes you before you make a bunch of plans to date her. Baby steps, boy, baby steps.....
go to the movies and do the whole arm around her thing then she will get a hint that u like her and maybe she will like u back! ;)
text her and take her to the movies,make sure you pay though.


And walk her up to her house afterwards.
Take her to an elegant Fodue restaurant
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